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Wanting to have a baby at 13?

Asked by whoabayb 10 months ago, 5 answers.

Is it illegal ? Would I still be able to go to school ?
anyting else I should know?

Answered by ifeelcrazy123 on Jan 09, 2009, 12:07PM
4944 answers

Do yourself a favour, ask for mandyloo's opinion

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Answered by abercrombiex3 on Jan 08, 2009, 07:17PM
47 answers

My friend is 13 and is having a baby and she really wished she didn't if I were you I would wait till you were out of school it would b the better decision and then you could become more responsable and I don't think it's illeagle but if Waite you will b happier too

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Answered by shawnlver on Jan 08, 2009, 07:17PM
88 answers

its not illegal to have a baby at thirteen and you would still be able to go to school, but it takes a lot out of you. A thirteen yr olds body is not ready to with hold such pain and responsibilty an adults can, so it would be best to wait dear happy

Answered by amandababyy72 on Jan 08, 2009, 08:49PM

No it is not illegal and yes you can still go to school but after the baby is born you would most likely drop out to take care of it. I know you probably won't listen to people telling you not to have one right now, but sweetie, you are thirteen years old, your body cannot take that condition. You getting pregnant that young could put harm in yours and the babies life. You shouldn't even be thinking about sex at that age. Get through school, get a job, house, and enough money to support that baby. When I was 15 and 16 I wanted a baby SOO bad, I even tried having one.. Luckily it didn't work. I thank god everyday for me not getting pregnant because I think about how much I would be missing out on and how much that baby would have to go through. Just think LONG and HARD about what your doing. Don't be selfish, think about what the baby would be without.. It probably wouldn't have a father, you would probably regret getting pregnant after you did and have an abortion or give it up for adoption, you wouldn't be able to support it(at thirteen your not old enough to have a job). Just think about what your doing.

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Answered by kay1234 on Jan 09, 2009, 06:50PM
18 answers

Well you may say it isn't illegal to have a baby at 13, but having sex at that age is right? And we all know one has to have sex to get pregnant ;-) see where I am going? Whoever would get you pregnant would be breaking the law...
Personally I would strongly suggest you do not have a baby at this age. Why would you want a baby to look after everyday for at least 18 years of its life? I tell you, it is EXTREMELY hard work. Your life is no longer yours. It's a very bit commitment.