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Want my man all to myself

Asked by cupcake1976 5 months ago, 7 answers.

My boyfriend is married and we have a great relationship but I am 32 and he is older. Should I move on or keep seeing him even if he is never leaving his wife?

Answered by ty on Jun 22, 2009, 04:51PM
10140 answers

Uhm, really, you needed to come to an advice site to hear what you knew everyone was going to say? That you need to leave and find a guy who will give you what you need, like birthdays, holidays, evenings, weekends, and loyalty, a future... I dont think so... There's a bigger question here. What is it? Why are you with someone who cannot give you what you need? Are you scared of commitment? Are you scared you wont find someone else? Do you like being special to someone, because they pick you over their wife? Only they're not... Because he's still with his wife... Dating someone who is involved is a pretty good sign of low self esteem... You deserve better, you can find better, so go get it...

Oh and no. He will not leave his wife. And if he does, he'll probably end up leaving you for someone younger in a few years...

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Answered by wbman1000 on Jun 22, 2009, 01:31PM
243 answers

Do yourself a favor... move on...

You can't really call him your boyfriend if he's already married ... I mean you can, but from a practical view, he's already taken, and I doubt his wife will be sharing him any time soon with you --- unless she finds out about you, then I suspect you'll still not have him because I would bet he's not THAT interested in you.

You need someone that you can call your own, and he can call you his own... Not just a booty call when he's free kind of thing. You deserve much better than that...

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Answered by minimoo100 on Jun 22, 2009, 01:32PM
44 answers

its up to him really. hes married so he has the choice. if he doesnt want to leave his wife.. you should obviously move on! unless your fine with sharing him and you enjoy what you have?

Answered by captainassassin on Jun 22, 2009, 01:35PM
6184 answers

***My boyfriend is married and we have a great relationship***

...a tad contradictory...

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Answered by say on Jun 22, 2009, 02:53PM
8 answers

girlfriend move on if he wanted to leave his wife he would have left her already

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 22, 2009, 05:24PM
7800 answers

If you cant figure out that you will NEVER have a married man all to yourself, then Hun you have got problems!

Answered by sweetromance on Sep 21, 2009, 01:46AM

Well, I couldn't stay with such a man. To be used as an stopgap is my least favorite thing to be and if you love yourself you would choose someone who's really into you. It's degrading. And he is an a**hole, he should leave his wife, if he doesn't love her anymore. Cheating is stupid and it doesn't make anyone feel happier, not even him.