Want a baby

well my boyf and I really want a baby but the thing is we are only I am 15 and he 14,,, but we love each other so much,,, we have planned everything and have discussed everything possable about having a child so young,, what is good and bad about it,,,...

but we both still want to have one,,, what should we do,,, we no that people say we will have no lifes but we wouldn't care,,, we will love the baby no matter what and would be able to provide for it,,, and we are both emotionally stable to have a baby but are not sure on what to do,,, pleaze help up,,, xxx

Okay HoneyBun...I am 17. When I was 16 I got pregnant, I was so happy, I thought I had everything planned out!! Guess what!!! WRONG. Do you know how much on averege the hospital bills are for all the prenantal visits are...and then all the LD bills. Hun...It is really expensive. Do you KNOW that your parents will be the happy grandparents when there BABYGIRL is having a baby? You are to young to have a job and so is your boyfriend. And you need to think about your body...you are 14... do you know how much stress a pregnancy puts on your body? You could have a miscarrage. I know PERSONALLY how bad it hurts to lose a baby. If you and your boyfriend love each ya'll can wait until you can afford to have a baby. I want to talk more to you so if you have yahoo messanger let me know...

just take your time. you and your boyfriend arent even old enough to legally drop out of hs yet, so you probably cant take care of a baby. if you have a baby you cant have a normal life, you cant go hang out at the movies or mall with your friends, youll have to sit with the baby. and that might be fun for a week, but you wont want to do it for years. you arent old enough or mature enough even if youthink you are. you need to finish your own childhood before you can start a new life. and the reason everyone says this is because its TRUE. we arent alljsut sayign this to be judgemental or obnoxious.