How to be sexy?

I have:love handles,thick legs,and a flabby stomach.How do I lose these? At my school,the girls that are considered sexy are thin or blond with nearly flawless skin.I have really dark hair and I'm african-american,so I can't be blond. I want to B SEXY!!! I have a little zit problem too.Not on my forehead,on my cheeks and the sides of my face near my hair. what do I do?

if your upset about your weight then eat healthy and exercise at least 1 hour a day. as for the zit problem everybody has to deal with it I have a lot of it I have to deal with but I keep it under control by using cleansers to wash my face, and my doctor prescribed me medicine to prevent and get rid of acne.if you wash your face and maybe ask your doctor about zit cream than your problem will be solved in no time.
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Yeah I agree with the above, If you want to be sexy you have to learn to be more healthy and you have to make more sacrifices about what's better for you. You have to take good care of your hair, skin and nails as well as your body. You have to find what works for you. I am a cosmetologist so I believe that the zits on the sides of your face and on your cheeks have to do with putting grease in your hair that runs down your face when you sweat and clogs your pores. Being sexy is a lot of work after all look at how much the celebrity's go through to maintain their gorgeous appearances.

every one is different and just because the seemingly flawless blonds are more popular dosent mean you arent sexy. I agree with the above everyone has pimples and for me that means washing my face twice a day and sometimes more. keep it clean.but I still have them. and I accept that. exercise is important, not only will it get you on the right track to fixing those problem areas your insecure about but it will help release endorphins in your brain that help you feel better. even dancing in your room to some hott music and breaking a sweat is a good start. just make sure you wash your face afterwards.