Waiting for marriage

Hello, I was just wondering how many of you are planing to wait till marriage to have sex. And if you are waiting will you do oral instead.

no I didnt wait for marriage
no regrets, I've only had 1 partner, I've been with him for 4 years
and besides I think I would want to test drive the car before I buy it lol if you know what I mean.
but I totally understand when people want to wait, I think thats great too

umm I'm going to wait.
and nope no oral because I consider that still as s3x
soo no nothing lol

I completely agree with cmjcarcam. Im waitig for marrriage as well

I don't see why you'd want to test drive. if you only love them for their sex, then you don't really love them at all. I want to wait. and no, I won't do it orally.

I think sex will be an important part of a healthy relationship. I agree with waiting. I think it's great that people can do that. But if you havn't beforehand, and you've got marriage and you find that you're not sexually compatable then you're screwed. So I think you should built a loving relationship - 6months+, trust each other fully, know each others bodies and know exactly what each other likes, use protection and make sure you're both fully ready. A lot of catholics have annulment because the partner's sex drives are different. Also waiting can make people resent each other for not trying out of people, the fact that this is the only women I've been with and ever will be with leads to adultery. This is in a handful of cases. I think it's amazing that people wait. And love each other before. Just an opinion.

I agree with day dreamer, when you go into the candy store, well you know how they have samples...think of it as trying a sample before you buy the whole package. lol.

I wouldnt be crying, if I can sample so can he...live your life! theres sooo many flavors out there. you never know which one you like until you try them all... and just because you like one doesnt mean you should live the rest of your life JUST eating that candy!!!

I understand what you are saying. yes I've heard of all those things. but love doesnt excist for me. and well im gonna keep eating candy, because I love sour candy just as much as sweet candy. No offense to anyone but the stupidist thing I have ever/ will ever do is fall in love.

everyone has a choice and their own opinion, I just choose not to love.

I'm gonna wait, partly because I'm a christian so that's partof my beliefsbut also because I dont see sex as a sport but as something that is to be shared between two people who love eachother and arent looking for the next person as soon as your doneif that makes sense. I can understand what you're saying about wanting to test or whatever, but in my opnion, it shouldnt matter that much if they suck, you should love them anyway, but that's just me
And I wouldnt do oral either, because, for me that would be too much temptation and I wouldnt be sure I could stop at that if you get what I mean so yeah Good question though!