How can i make sure he doesn't get hurt?

... Asked by twistedfate111 over 2 years ago, 2 answers.

GUYS RESPOND PLEASE! I've been with two partners so far - one in a serious, monogamous relationship; one in a meaningless fling. My current boyfriend is a virgin and want to lose his virginity to me. I want to make his first time special and would love...

to hear some male feedback (or girls in the same situation).

Also, we are in an open relationship but I can see that he is getting more attached. I just came out of a very serious realtionship and am not ready to return to a simmilar situation. He doesn't seem to want to wait to have sex (which is fine with me) but I want to make sure he isn't hurt by the fact that I can't commit myself fully to him.

Any thoughts? Advice? Thanks!

Answered by gb1234 on Aug 12, 2007, 02:36AM
56 answers

Basicly get closer and make him more comfortable with you...Talk to him more...Kiss him more...mAKE HIM exremely horny...So he cracks

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 12, 2007, 03:43AM
53906 answers

I say talk some more before you do it. If he really wants you to be his first but it means a lot to him, you'll need to wait so you don't hurt him (guys have hearts too).

If he's not attaching seriousness to your first time together things might be a bit different. Ask him if he wants it to be fun and playful or like the hottest thing ever. Find out if anywhere will do or if he always dreams about it in a certain place. You'll learn more about how he's thinking when he answers.

If you're good-to-go gb's advice is right on. ;-Þ

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