Virgin

is being a virgin a bad thing? my friend allexis thinks so! whats your opinion?

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I would like to see more people wait till marriage.

Not at all - all that means is that you have not found the right person or that you stand by your values and are not ready for a phsical relationship. There is nothing wrong with it.

I think it's a noble and honourable thing, but not always the only way to be. Virginity (or lack thereof) does not dictate who you are.

I do think, however, that you should wait until you find the right person -it means so much more (and you're less likely to be labeled).

Your friend is very wrong - it shows you have good, solid, values to wait until marriage - and no, it is not impossible, very admirable.

no its not a bad thing at all.
dont have sex until you are totally ready and want to.
wait until you are truly ready and dont rush anything.

my friend allexis is only 12. isnt that auful that at 12 she wants to give her virginity to some random guy?
xoxoTina

You only get to be a virgin once in your life and to give it up to some random guy is wrong. Its spoust to be somthing you cherish not throw away.

I agree with you love and hate. your right. its something that she should cherish.

noo is not. I thnk that shes jss sayn that because shes is still onee..
but whenshe finds the ritee onee to do it with then shell st0p thnkn that..
thats what I thnk but then I don't know

for her birthday in feb. shes throwing a sex party in the woods. yea, I think shes serious

I'm a virgin
an some guy like that so it is ok
2 be one

there's nothing wrong with being a virgin... I think you should give your virginity to someone that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with... and until you do give it to that special person, then it should be something that you are very proud of and cherish for as long as you can...

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A VIRGIN, a lot OF MY FRIENDS ARE, GIRL YOUR VIRIGNITY IS THE MOST SPECIAL GIFT YOU CAN GIVE TO SOMEONE, SO GIVE IT WHEN YOU ARE READY, TO THE PERSON YOU THINK DESERVES THAT GIFT

yes im still a virgin. a person whose never had sex, ever.
xoxoTina

nope. nothing's wrong with it. at all.

sweetheart your body is way too special to give it to an immature boy who doesnt fully respect you. there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. dont listen to your friend

It's an amazing thing that you're a virgin! Don't give in like everyone else.
You should wait until marriage where you will be in a solid relationship.
It might be hard (Trust me, I'm waiting and it isn't easy) but you will be much happier with yourself.
Keep your innocence..you only get to give it away once.
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You should read a book..Sex is worth waiting for. Whenever I feel tempted...I read this book and it reminds me why I'm waiting and what I'm waiting for.

im not going she just wants help PLANNING the party im NOT part of it. so im Not listening to her if I wasnt doing it in the first place anyway!! why on earth would I want to go??! I think her idea is just sick!

of course not. you will remain to stay a virgin until you are ready, whether that means being 50 years old. im fifteen and I used to feel bad admiting to being a virgin but now I am grateful that I have held it off because everyone my age that has had sex regreted it. please explain to your friend that nothing is wrong with being a virgin, especially at fourteen like you!

*Scoff* I never said it was a bad thing lozer!!!
I said it's a boring thing. LOL IMA VIRGIN 2 RETAD!!!
xXxMeXxX

Definitely not a bad thing, more people should wait longer.