Various advice needed....!?!?!

ok well I've asked this before kind of but my boyfriend is really crazy and he wants to do a bunch of sexual stuff with me that I'm not real sure of. he wants me to try and deepthroat him although he's pretty big so I dunno if I can do it but yea...oh and also I was wondering how much of a chance I have of getting pregnant while on birth control and he would use a condom? we haven't had sex yet; we're both virgins. I just want to make sure I know all the risks before I take one. so please give me advice fast he's coming over later if ya know what I mean and we're going to have some fun. I know I want to have sex and do all that stuff...thats not the case of whether im ready or not because I know I am...I just want to know how to do everything so I don't make a fool of myself in front of my boyfriend lol. thanks a lot!

Are you sure you want to do this? My ex sounds exactly like your boyfriend. Im not going to get into what we did, but im sorry that I did now!! Sex changes things in a relationship. I didnt lose my virginity to him(thank god for that) but he was my first, and for that I am very cautious about doing things in a new relationship. Im saving myself for my fiance or husband someday! I want to be sure hes NOT going anywhere!!!Bfs come and go. Your going to put yourself in a vulnerable state, then somewhere down the road, hes going to leave you, or vice versa!! Just be sure your not going to have any regrets afterwards!! Just be aware of what can happen!!

You should be able to talk about these things with your boyfriend. You shouldn't feel pressured into anything and this should be a fun experience for both of you. He has as much as expereince as you therefore neither of you need to know everything because you are both experimenting together. Your boyfriend has taken steps by telling him what he would like to try, you should also tell him what you would like to do. This is an expereince to share and discovering eacothers bodies is the fun part! Try stuff, ask if it feels good, let him try stuff on you, tell him when it feels good. Communicating is the best way for both of you to get the most out of this expereince. For your othr question it is almost impossible (if not impossible) for you to get pregnant if you are using both birth control and a condom. Also the condom protects you from STDs and it is very good of both of you to use them. Finaly, you will not be making a fool of yourself by having fun and trying stuff with your boyfriend especialy if you guys talk about it, make eachother feel confortable and do it in a respectful, loving fashion.