Is it bad to have "fat vagina lips"?

okay, well, first of all, I'm going to make sure I'm thinking of the right thing. vagina lips are the skin part where pubic hair grows right? well if so, today I was told I have fat vagina lips. is that a BAD thing? like, this guy and me have done stuff...

together before blah blah blah, but he really wants to give me oral s*x. and if he thinks I have fat vagina lips should I be worried about that? we are probably going to have s*x soon, and it's my first time (and his) so of course, he's going to have to look at my vagina to know where to put his penis right? I just don't want him to be disgusted at the fat vagina lips. even though he's told me NUMEROUS times that he loves everything about me and stuff, I don't want it to be in the back of his head that damn, what the f*ck?. so, can you somehow lose weight from your vagina? that sounds stupid but if not, then how could I not be so self concious?

Well, vagina lips are suppose to be fattish anyways. I doubt that there is anything wrong with you. And you shouldnt be worried what he thinks because im sure he loves you and wont even notice, even though I dont think your any different than any other girl.
Dont worry about what that other guy said.
He probably doesnt know what hes talking about.

who told u this neway because whoever did has no feelings at all... u are probably being a little self concious about this because someone else told u this... if he really loves u he is not ganna care what ur lips look like ... and make sure that u are totally positive about the s*x thing cause it sounds like u guys havent done nething else like fingering... and u sound like u arent ready yet .

I dont want to sit here and judge your behavior, but this is the reason so many girls get hurt! Why are you doing stuff with boys? Dont you believe in being in a commited relationship? If this was a bf, hopefully you wouldnt be as self conscience with him, because it would be someone you trusted, not just some guy who might go behind your back and talk smack about your body!
You were born with what God gave you. None of us are perfect. We are all human. So be happy with your unique human features, and show off your best trait. We all have something that we're proud of - or at least reasonably OK with.

wow this room is a room i can not help in.

I can:

They're called labia majora

...and I refuse to help any further.

the only helpful answers i've read is the very first one. and all the others just seem to be lectures. thank you very much for seeming to care whether or not i'm ready for s*x, but that's not what i asked. the whole question that i had asked was if it was normal for the 'labia majora' (thank you captainassasin, even though you refused to give an actual answer as well) to consist of more fat than what i've seen before. i didn't ask this question to get lectured, because if that's what i was going for, i would have ask my mother.

thank you monkeyfun26 for your helpful advice.

camel toe any guy that does'nt like that is sorry 2 say this GAY thats what a real male,boy,man is attracted 2

Every persons body is different. No two are alike! Lots of women have more fatty tissue in their breasts than the rest, but that doesnt mean its abnormal. Now, if you only had one lip, then you would have something to worry about. You are perfectly normal, and healthy.

You state that it will be your first time and his, I am just wondering how many vagina's up close he's even seen to know whether yours are fat or not. Maybe he's seen a few magazines or movies, maybe he's touched a few, but probably not that many to really know for sure.

Everyone is different, there is know right or wrong size of vaginal lips. He's a guy if he wants some and your willing to give it up he's not going to say no.

If you think you are really going to have s ex with him. When you are about to have s ex tell him your not sure if you want to have s ex with someone that thinks I have fat vagina lips. I guarantee he will change his tune in a second, and be kissing your butt big time.

You sound just perfect. Don't listen to him.

I agree totaly.. even though im a guy

do you need me to take a look and let you know if its normal?

Actually where I come from a lot of boys told me the same thing abd when I finally got the courage to ask them what does that mean and is it bad or good or what. They told me it was a good thing because its better than a vagina with little lips, they say it feels better because the lips grips the pen*s and feels real good like some sort of cusion you know. Its not bad.