Using guys

My friend has been going out with this guy for 8 months but then he broke up with her. Now she is going out with his friend to make him jealous. She still talks to her ex and she said that she loves him and he said he loves her but he doesn't want to go...

out with her. When ever she sees her ex in the hall she is all over her new boyfriend. Then she made out with another one of her ex's friends. Her current boyfriend and the guy she was making out with really like her. But the only one she wants is her ex. And as soon as her ex wants to go out with her again she is going to break up with the guy she was using. My friend is very codependant and absolutely cannot be without a boyfriend. I feel that its really wrong that she has been using two guys when she likes someone else. I don't want to be mean to her but what she is doing is REALLY wrong. What do I say to her?

TELL HER THE TRUTH...THEN REMIND HER THAT SHES LOOKING REALLY EASY AND CHEAP.
TELL HER I SAID THAT.
AND TELL HER THAT THIS BEHAVIOR WONT ONLY MAKE HER EX JEALOUS BUT ITLL MAKE HIM NOT WANT TO BE WITH HER...BECAUSE SHES EASY...AND THERES THIS UNWRITTEN RULE NOT TO GO OUT WITH YOUR EXES FRIENDS...SHES TEARING THAT TO PEICES...WHEN HER CURRENT boyfriend FINDS OUT HE WILL NOT ONLY HATE HER BUT TELL HER EX...THEYLLL TALK BAD ABOUT HER AND SHELL BE LEFT WITH NEITHER...TELL HER THE TRUTH JUST BE NICE AS you CAN ABOUT IT.

She shouldn't lead the guy on. Plain and simple. It's just wrong.

Either way, she's letting her ex win by letting it bug her so much that she'd want to make him jealous.

When is she going to get the message that her ex don't want her and even if they ever do get back together, it's because she's doing too much and he'd end up dumping her the next week or cheating on her anyways.

try to explain your feelings to her just like you did on here. Be honest with her and remind her that you arent saying this because you are trying to be mean , but because you are her friend. Hopefully she will respect that, and realize she is making herself look really bad and her tactics arent going to establish anything..except a lot of hurt feelings. Good luck

Your a smart girl you have it right your friend doesn't. remember that someone with a personality like that may betray you one day as well. Sometimes us teenagers can be pretty self centered until you learn your lessons and you can hurt a lot of people learning some never do...maybe this friend isn't the right one for you to spend the majority of your time with ?