Useless?

I feel so... so useless nowadays...
I mean... I can barely help my friends...
I don't know what to say to comfort them more than half the time.
I want to be able to help others more...
Especially my friends...
What's a good way to let them know that I'm...

here for them?
That I'll listen to them? That I can be a wall they can lean on and depend upon?

Some people can't be helped, it's a phase they have to go through.

Eli your an amazing person and you shouldn't feel like this. You're putting way too much stress on yourself.

you help me more then nebody I know elly...
I want you to know this...

Sometimes we can't fix the problem and the bast and most needed thing is being there to listen. Someone who takes time out of there busy lives to make someone else feel that they are important and matter.

oh elly. come on now.
I bet your mere presence is enough to be helpful

I'm pretty sure your friends are glad enough to have you around,if you feel you want to do more for them,ask them what you can do to give more.

Your not useless,you just want to give back more.

First of all, I'm pretty sure that your friends are happy with you at the moment. I mean reading the comments from them they sound pretty enthusiastic about you and your friendship with them. In other ways, maybe you should start hanging around them a bit more than you do usually, if you spend most of your time with them, then, ask them if they have any problems, having or holding girly nights is a great way to talk to them and consult them, or maybe, you could be the one with the problem and maybe you need them to fix it.

Hope we helped.

xx

I feel the same way as eli nowadays.

Everyone wants to be useful, but at best all you can do sometimes is be by there side, that is enough, believe me.
a lot of people like you, I know.
We understand, and you know what Your kind. You do a lot, as for the people who actualy spend time with you, show them this very question! They'll know just how much you care for them.