Used and tired

My step daughter loves me (17 years old). She dosen't want to upset her mom so she doesn't spend time witth me. I've been with her dad 10 years. Her mother said I have to prove myself, I would die for her. It hurts you know. My husband sends childsupport...

and his daughter didn't even know untill he dad showed her. His daughter asked for 200 dollors and he was like ok but I'm sending your mom money. Now we gave her 200 she stopped calling. Her mom is hatefull! She dosen't let her come over or send us pictures, we are both tired of it. We never win.

I know..it is very hard..thata what is going on with my sisters life..what I would do is fight for it.. go to court, she is 17 so she can deside what she wants to do!! Good Luck!

I sympathize with you, but in one more year she will be 18 and then if she wants to be out from under her Mom's control she can be. But remember that (hopefully) she loves her Mom; and (this is the unfortunate part) will probably try to keep appeasing her. Don't expect the Mom to change at this point.
Again, my sympathies.

her mom is just jelious that you can do a better job then her, dont worry hun I bet when she turns 18 she will come back and things will be better