Should I tell my husband about my urge to cheat?

I have ben married for 6yrs now but there is on chemistry on my end. and I have ben getting the urge to cheat should I tell my husband

You should confide in him that you don't have the same feelings as you did when you first met, but that doesn't mean go and cheat on him; how would it make you feel if he did that? best thing to do is explore in your relationship what your lacking in, example, are you not spending enough time together? how is your sexual relationship? (don't tel me) if it isn't so good, then what can you do to improve it? is there enough communication betwen the two of you?

Valentines is coming up so maybe you could do something really special for him and see what happens and take it from there. If it has come to teh point were you know for sure that you don't love him then cheating wouldn't be the best of ideas considering you are in a marital relationship. Tell him you need time to think things through and that you need yoiur space for a while to get your head straight.

Good Luck

if you feel that way then do it LOL JP but its better not to tell him cause if you do everything will go to waste and he'll think you already did it but since you thinking so much about cheating you are bored of him thats one good reason and need a break from him to make sure you still in love with him thats all I can say cause I went through the same feelings and choosed the wrong one but cant look back now can I

If your husband is tolerant you may disscuss this question with him, and maybe you can agree in some 3some or else. If he is not tolerant then you may make it in a secret way, telling it never to anybody.

Instead of telling him to you want to cheat on him, why not try to find ways to bring excitement into your lives.

Or, try doing things to break up your normal routine, like start going on dates again or doing fun and challenging things together.
You may realize you are still in love with him, you'd just forgotten.

if you are feeling the urge to cheat, maybe it's time to spice up the relationship, maybe that's the problem. a lot of people get the urge to cheat simply because things aren't the same as they were when they first go together... maybe plan a getaway, it doesn't have to be far. do something out of the ordinary that you wouldn't normally do to make things more exciting, if that doesn't help than maybe it's time to express your feelings to your husband so he knows how you feel.