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Asked by turtlebug16 about 1 year ago, 7 answers.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months and we have not yet had sex. I am a virgin and he wants me to try a lot of things. He's been focusing on a few things though. He want me to try anal sex, me being on top, and doggy style. I am uncomfortable with all of these, but he says they will feel really good. What should I do?

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Answered by bubux007 on Jan 07, 2007, 08:50AM
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in my opinion a virgin girl should not try anal sex. For both of you the 'normal' sex should be enough exciting and satisfactory. Maybe after 10 years practicing normal sex, and only if you are tired of that a little, you can spice your life with anal sex. So, you two should think of your normal and healty 'first time'.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jan 07, 2007, 10:32AM
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You should NEVER let anyone talk you into anything your uncomfortable with!! It has to be YOUR decision! If your fine with how everything is in your relationship, then he should respect that! Dont let him make you feel pressured into doing anything! Its your body, and you have total control over what you choose to do with it! There are a lot of other things you can do, and still remain a virgin!

Answered by mzmcgaskey on Jan 07, 2007, 10:37AM
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Don't let him make up your mind for you! Tell him that your not ready for all of this and trust me when your ready you will know and so will he. Question EVERYTHING you should should know his past partners, last doctor visit,etc...Its all in your control!

our song...  Answered by 072306 on Jan 07, 2007, 11:57AM
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I tried anal sex befor I lost my virginity.. its no big deal.. just use ube and go slow at first because it can hurt. but if your not ready tell him you need time.. your not ready right now. and if you want to buld up to that slowly get your self to that point by getting physically closer all the time when you are alone. usually it will come natural.. and if your still uncomfortable when your ready close your eyes. but usually if your ready you wont want to. doggy style is not to good the first time it a little to intence you on top is good too. thats how I lost mine. it really dont hurt. probably the least.
but use protection!!!

Me Answered by locoluna on Jan 07, 2007, 05:19PM
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you need to experience normal sex before all these kinky positions your boyfriend wants you to do, he needs to be gentle with you for the first few times and understand that you need to have normal gentle sex a few times to get things moving before you try different positions, theres plenty of time for that.
But the main conern here is whether or not when the time comes you are willing to do any of these things he is asking, and if not, what would he do? he cannot force you to do anything you dont want to do. And if you dont then voice that, dont let him guilt you into it, and if he seems cold and mean becos you rather not give in then he isnt worth being your first!!

dancee!. Answered by xobabeeyxo on Jan 11, 2007, 04:58PM
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kaay hunn deff. jusst tell himm howw youu feel!. iff hee reaaly likess youu thenn hee shouldd understandd. andd hee deff shouldd nott pushh youu too doo anythingg you dont wannt too doo.

me and my friend Answered by rae13 on Jan 13, 2007, 09:07PM
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I think that he juss wants 2 juss wants to use you for his pleasure but if he really luved you he would wait until your ready

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