Unwanted body hair

Well I have dark hair and its everywhere. On my arms, hands, stomach, butt, feet and upper lip. I wax my upper lip, shave my hands, legs and feet. But on my stomach it is gross, and my arms and but cause it makes me feel reallly unsexy and my boyfriend...

kinda wants to do things and I dont want him to see it all. But I dont want to get rid of it all and I dont no how I will be able to get bleach cause my mum wont let me... So what should I do cause I feel really unatracive

for a start you are way to young to be 'doing stuff', anyway, I think everyone feels self-conscious of their bodies, you do know shaving the hair now will make it grow back thicker and darker in the future. If your boyfriend is a good guy he wont care, I mean nobodys perfect, everyone has flaws, if he is worth keeping he will see past this and not make a big deal out of it.

I strongly advise, please wait till your older before going further with him, you have the whole rest of your life to be doing that, just enjoy being a kid now because once your innocence is gone, you can never get it back. If your not ready for the worst-case scenario of pregnancy or an std, if you cant handle that then your not ready to be taking this further. Please wait till your older, you will regret it if you dont, I know this from personal experience.

Only shave your legs, toes, and underarms.

You're 13, there is no reason for you to be removing any other hair or doing anything else.