Problem with my downstairs!

okay, so I have a really embarassing thing. right. umm I have a mole on my P*ssy and its so gross and embarassing. I really want to have sex but I'm afraid no1 will because of it. like its nasty !. so for a little while I didn't shave because I figured...

mabye the hair would cover but it didn't so I started shaving all my hair off and no you can see it big time. !! HELP !! LIKE IS THAT TOTALLY DIGUESTING OR WHAT??

I would advise you to go to a doctor to get it checked out. It needs to be cleared that it is not an infection or cancerous. Highly unlikely since you are 14 but do it all the same. The doctor will tell you what it is, and you can both discuss ways of getting rid of it. The most common and painless way is freezing it. This is where some kind of freeze spray it put on it and it drops off. There is most likely going to be a little mark where it once was, but you can buy ointments for scars and stretch marks that make it fade away.

I know it can be embarrassing to show your genitila to a doctor, but you can ask for a female doctor or have your mother or other female relative with you. They do not need to see you getting undressed.

If it cannot be removed until you are older or something then just wait. Please bear in mind that you are underage for having sex!

well first you shoudl have your doc check it out to make sure its nothing else.
if they say your all good then just let whoever know that youve been tested and your all good.

I'm 14 thoughh.. isen't that a lil wiredd to go to the doctor and have a test for you know.. thatt??lol

You should get it checked to be sure that it's only a mole. Then, when all is clear, you can have it removed. There's tons of cosmetic surgeons that will gladly do it for you, all you would need to say is that you feel its in the way, and makes you uncomfortable.
Hope all turns out well.

Get it removed