What does it take for an overweight guy to get a hot girlfriend?

what does it take for an overweight guy to get a hot girlfriend? I haven't had any luck

I have dated the 'trophy' guys and believe me their personalities sucked. They were insensitive, untrustworthy, selfish, and had lots of ego and pride. Some were so boring!

In general all girls are different. But at the end of the day we all need a loving and a reliable guy who would be there for us no matter what. As long as you can build a friendship and gain trust, love will follow after that.

You need to be confident, sweet, caring and of course show her that you can be very loving. Words are just not enough.

I dont want to comfort you by saying that you are fine the way you are. Unless you have some medical condition, losing some weight is important in your case. Its not only for health reasons but for self esteem issues too. You seem to be very conscious about your looks. We can only give advices. You have to help your own self.

Your attitude. Girls like funny guys, but not stupid funny. Be nice to them and have a lot of confidence. Good Luck man.

well what do you consider hot ?

umm, to lose some weight ? Not trying to be mean, but there's nothing right about being overweight. It just shows a lack of self control, a desire to look after yourself and be healthy.

slavaim you are totally wrong some people can not help the way they are its not all that easy to just lose weight eg : certain medical conditions cause you to gain weight and sometimes it is really really hard to lose it
anyways xxdudexx dont listen to slavaim you are fine as you are and if girls had any respect or love for you they would not be botherd about the size of you and there are plenty of hot girls out there that like cuddly men hope you find someone you sound pretty nice
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Just trying to be realistic. It's a tough environment out there, survival of the fittest, you need to be at your best, even good looking guys can struggle. People not being able to help the way they are is just people trying to absolve themselves of all responsibility. The it's hard excuse doesn't wash with me. You are responsible for your own life, your own destiny. That's just my view.

there are plenty of girls out there and if they dont like you for who you are and what you look like then they are the ones who have the problems not you. Change yourself only if you have the desire to do so...dont listen to others and dont let them make decsions for you! you sound like a great guy and I hope that you find a great girl!

SLAVAIM .I respect your view but it really is not easy to lose it I am currently struggling with weight loss and I have PCOS witch makes it 100 times harder to lose the weight and if you have a low self esteem it makes it worse maby a g/f is what he needs to give him the kick start to lose weight but thats his choice weather he wants to lose it or not, but if hes happy as he is then good on him
I really hope you find that special girl xxdudexx

Then you have good reason, I'm just saying for the majority of those overweight, that wont apply to them, and they need to take responsibly for that rather than blaming others.

time,luck,approachability, and a good sense of humor. trust me it works

there are lots of gurls who like cuddly guy Im one of them xD
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