Uh-oh!!

I think I'm falling hard for a guy who is strictly just there to mess around with... we were never like THAT. I was the one who made it clear that I didn't want to go out with him. he never asked but I thought he should know before anything happened. hes...

my friends big brother and he is shallow and older. but I'm really going for him, I'm blowing off my cousin and best guy friend for him and I never do that. we are together ever chance we get, just to see eachother. I dont think it's the same for him, I know it's not. but I'm crazy for him. I dont want to be another stupid love sick teenage girl!!!
I'm not in love but I really really care about him. what do I do!? going out is no an option!!

Don't out yourself in a position where you like a person,but they only see you as a sexual toy.If he;s only there to mess around,don;t bother.Its not fair for you to be in a relationship like that.I was with a boy,and I eally liked him a lot,but al he wanted was sex.I was so naive,and I wish I hant fallen as hard as I did.I felt so used after realizing all he wanted was sex.
Do yourself a favor,dont put yourself in that position.

** think I'm falling hard for a guy who is strictly just there to mess around with**

**hes my friends big brother and he is shallow and older**

**I dont think it's the same for him, I know it's not**

**going out is no an option!!**

With all that said, then why are even getting involved with him? What do you expect to get out of being with him every chance you get? Be smart, and run in the opposite direction, because you ARE acting like a love sick teenager!!

That's what you get? Maybe you won't mess around with people anymore?