Saw my boyfriend's myspace

I know its long but please read!

Ok so yesterday my boyfriend gave me his password 2 myspace and of course I logged on(which I regret doing)but anyways I go on 2 one of his friends profiles and all over her pictures it says 'damn your hot and I'm having fantasies and I'm like what?!I'm like he promised me he wasn't gunna flirt with no one and yet he goes and flirts with da 1st s@ank he finds I'm was up cryin all night not knowing what 2 do or what 2 think! I'm so hurt I tought I could trust him ya know and well I sent him this long a$$ text telling him how I felt and well kinda breakin up but we didn't breakup we talked things out but every weekend we talk till like 6am and well I think its gunna be a bit akward ya know?so what can I do 2 like make things not so weird because text doesn't cut it 4 me ya know I want to hear it 4m his mouth because I'm still I bit doubtful because this has happend many times so please help =(

Why would he give you his my space pass word if he had something on there he didnt want you to see.

well put it this way he may have been with girls before you and maybe after you but while he is with you he is all yours!
if it was me I wouldnt react if it was before me but if it was while we were together I dont go with the guys who need to flirt when they have a girl
make him admit she isnt anything
then move from there
:P

just ask him why he did it, also check to see what the date of thoes comments were, they could have been before you 2 started going out.

Me and him have been going out 4 a year and da comments were like 4rm a week ago and he said he did 2 be nice but they were kinda sexua/I want to hookup with you comments

well, you cant really say that. you cant tell personality through comments. my myspace has 'damn your fine' from many people all over my pictures. and I post them on others to, for the same reason, to be nice. but im still a verrry loyal boyfriend. im sure you have looked at a magazine, or a movie with a guy and said to yourself 'damn he is sexy/hot' so just tell him that you feel un-noticed when he does that. he will understand.

Its not that at all dats just 1 of the comments there's more and if I didn't know any better I would say dats his girlfriend and by the way this is a long distance relationship which shouldt change anything because its still a relationship but I feel really hurt by this

talk it out ... that all I could say

WHAT I THINK IS that THERES NO JUSTIFICATION ON WHAT HE DID HE MADE YOU A PROMISE and HE DIDNT KEEP IT and you SAY ITS NOT DA 1ST TIME SO WHAT MAKES you THIN HES NOT GOING TO DO IT AGAIn??? DATS NOT RIGHT FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP because IT SEEMS LIKE UVE LOST TRUST IN HIM SO I THINK ITS GOING TO BE HARD TO TRY and SEEM LIKE NOTHINGS HAPPENED BUT ITS your CHOICE JUST THINK IF you want to STAY AND MOST LIKELY GET HURT AGAIN OR GO WITH A GUY THAT WILL REALLY JUST FOCUS ON you and KEEP THEIR PROMISES ...GOOD LUCK

hmmm I bet u'd hate it if I said leave him??? im only 17 but my most serious relationship was 2 and a half years, everything was great for ages and ages, then like urself I was nosey, and found things id wished id never found, and that was without his password. things like I want to have your babies, I want to F*#K you etc etc, it broke my heart! after confronting him, he told me it was all fun and games, that he only wanted me and the girl live on the other side of the world (made no difference to me where she lived I was pissed off. but because I 'loved' him I stayed and gave him the harsh word he couldnt do it again, and I though all was fine. not long after that I got his password, and surely enough there was my friend and him messaging 'thanks for the great sex on saturday, please dont tell sara, and ill see you next weekend! ...it all starts off with comments that 'mean nothing'...but it always seems to get worse! I know this isnt advice as such, more just a warning...NO TRUST??? START RUNNING!!!