Totally confused agian!

Hey, thanks for the advice! There is really a lot more to the story than what I had summed up. I have tried & tried talking with him & tried to listen to him also. He says that he truly loves me & wants to be with me, he doesn't want to hurt me! So finally after all this time of wondering and trying to figure this great big HUGE turn around out, One nite everything was calm, I looked at him & said " Well $%$^T I guess after tonite, this will be my last nite of coming over here, he said" What? Why? like nothing has ever happened what so ever, like so many times before! I told him that I just could'nt take it any longer, It hurt way to much to keep going like it has been going, I can't do it to myself no longer! We ended up having a good talk. He says I think up things all the time, I make myself worry for no reason, that he loved me wasn't looking 4 anyone else, just liked to have time alone, or w/ friends etc. & me! Funny thing is I haven't seen him since last Wednesday! It's TUESDAY! ????? Please give me more of your insight soon!!! Remember, this same guy has wanted to be w/ me for years, & years. Was just crazy over me the first 6 months!!! THANKS!!!!!!!

So sorry you're going through so much over this guy.......but, I don't think this guy knows what a true relationship is......first he needs to be honest with you, when he tells you he's going to call or he wants to be with you....then thats what he promised you and he needs to keep his word! Some guys are so gifted in making us girls feel we are the only one in their world....but we can be dumb in thinking we are the only one in their world when they don't call us and ignore us......you saw him last Wed.....and now it's Tuesday...... Awwe I understand in more ways than one why you feel disapointed....but you need to let him go until he can prove he's going to put more time into this relationship....because you're too smart just to wait around for him to be there when he wants to spend time with you.... It's hard but you need to make changes.... I'm about ready to make some changes in my life and I understand how difficult it can be. Good Luck!

It sounds like he is very confused and doesnt know what he feels anymore. Instead of making it easier for you and letting you go until he works it out, he is stringing you along and cant tell you how he feels becos he doesnt even no. He is being distant becos he wants to see if he does miss you when he doesnt see you, if I were you id break up with him. Becos you are not getting what you need out of this relationship, that will really test how much he cares for you, when he loses you. The best thing here is to take some time apart, time for yourself, and time for him to work out what he needs, if he truly cares it will be a major wake up call for him and he will step up! if he doesnt care less, atleast you got your answers!