Torn in love

ok. heres the out-look. My ex g/f Jen is living with me. she puts me through to much hell. I want my old g/f back, Cheri. but I have feelings for them both. And I dont have the heart to kick Jen out with no place to go. but also, sometimes, I dont trust cheri. they both have bad flaws, but I cant help that I have feelings for both. What should I do?

Well, you don't want a girlfriend who puts you through hell, obviously- and you HAVE to be able to trust your girlfriend, so it sounds to me like neither of these women are for you. Don't forget that you're supposed to be in a relationship because its what you want, once it stops making you happy then you're just carrying on something that's no longer there. So if your present girlfriend and you aren't happy together, it may be time to move on if you can't work it out- you certainly shouldn't be thinking of other women while being with her. You can still break up and remain friends until she can find another place to live, and maybe you can develop the trust with cheri you would need to try again at a relationship with her. Good luck

I dont put you thru hell I do everything I can for you its just not good enough for u. you get mad way 2 easily. I dont get mad when you put me down and half the stuff I do that p*ss I dont mean to. its not liek im like hey lets p*ss jamie off jeez. I try. you just have to learn to not get mad so easy jamie. I love you so much and ijust want to be the perfect girl for you and do everything right. but not everyone is perfect I have my times I make you mad and you have the time you make me mad. yes im not perfect at realtionships and thats because im not as expereiced as you are your basically my first. its still difficult. and I put you thru hell because of what ithink bout cheri my jealouness. no one im like I am jeez. no1 perfect. Jamie I just wish ud work better with me conciferin you know how I am. I dont want to be with out you I want you in my life always and when you break up with me or get mad you just blow up you dont try to think bout what im thinking or nthing. I wish I could explain it all and you get it. I get you I know your ways I rally do. but like taking a wraper off the battery you got mad over that. I wished ud talk to me not ignore me. and I guess you got desperate concidering your asking for advice huh? you dont ever talk tome about what I do wrong so this is wehre I come to figure things out. today was no excuse to break up with me. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS

I DO EVERYTHING you ASK ME TO DO FOR you WITH OUT ASKING FOR NETHING IN RETURN. YES I SCREW UP EVERY NOW AND THEN. CAN you NAME ONE THING I HAVENT DONT FOR U. THAT you HAVE ASKED SOME MIGHT HAVE TAKIN AWHILE BUT I HAVE DONE IT?

would it help if I took a shower with you tongiht. ill run the water and everything please??? ill make up for it I want you back mr. love you lots