Torn in love

ok. heres the out-look. My ex g/f Jen is living with me. she puts me through to much hell. I want my old g/f back, Cheri. but I have feelings for them both. And I dont have the heart to kick Jen out with no place to go. but also, sometimes, I dont trust...

cheri. they both have bad flaws, but I cant help that I have feelings for both. What should I do?

Well, you don't want a girlfriend who puts you through hell, obviously- and you HAVE to be able to trust your girlfriend, so it sounds to me like neither of these women are for you. Don't forget that you're supposed to be in a relationship because its what you want, once it stops making you happy then you're just carrying on something that's no longer there. So if your present girlfriend and you aren't happy together, it may be time to move on if you can't work it out- you certainly shouldn't be thinking of other women while being with her. You can still break up and remain friends until she can find another place to live, and maybe you can develop the trust with cheri you would need to try again at a relationship with her. Good luck

i dont put u thru hell i do everything i can for u its just not good enough for u. u get mad way 2 easily. i dont get mad when u put me down and half the stuff i do that piss i dont mean to. its not liek im like hey lets piss jamie off jeez. i try. u just have to learn to not get mad so easy jamie. i love u so much and ijust want to be the perfect girl for u and do everything right. but not everyone is perfect i have my times i make u mad and u have the time u make me mad. yes im not perfect at realtionships and thats cuz im not as expereiced as u are ur basically my first. its still difficult. and i put u thru hell cuz of what ithink bout cheri my jealouness. no one im like i am jeez. no1 perfect. Jamie i just wish ud work better with me conciferin u know how i am. i dont want to be with out u i want u in my life always and when u break up with me or get mad u just blow up u dont try to think bout what im thinking or nthing. i wish i could explain it all and u get it. i get u i know ur ways i rally do. but like taking a wraper off the battery u got mad over that. i wished ud talk to me not ignore me. and i guess u got desperate concidering ur asking for advice huh? u dont ever talk tome about what i do wrong so this is wehre i come to figure things out. today was no excuse to break up with me. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS

I DO EVERYTHING U ASK ME TO DO FOR U WITH OUT ASKING FOR NETHING IN RETURN. YES I SCREW UP EVERY NOW AND THEN. CAN U NAME ONE THING I HAVENT DONT FOR U. THAT U HAVE ASKED SOME MIGHT HAVE TAKIN AWHILE BUT I HAVE DONE IT?

would it help if i took a shower with u tongiht. ill run the water and everything please??? ill make up for it i want u back mr. love you lots