Tired of being single

So, the title explains it all. But so it's easier, here's my story.

Last fall I sort of had a boyfriend - as in we weren't just dating, but not totally serious either. I had had suuuch a huge crush on him and I could feel little butterflies in my...

stomach everytime I thought of him and smiles if someone mentioned his name.
Since that ended, which was in like december, I haven't liked/been attracted to or what so ever to anyone.

I'm tired of being single. and I know I need to make the effort, but the thing is if I want to meet someone here at my age I most likely have to go to a party where there'll be drinking and such - which is basically a part of a click I'm not in and an envirement where I feel uncomfortable and out of place.

I'm overloaded with homework and stress, cheerleading and soccer and exams are coming up in two weeks - but as said I DON'T want to be single anymore- I want to get that tingly feeling again in my stomach.
I know it's a hard qs, but really what do I do?

I kinda know how you feel me and this guy both like each other and we act like boyfriend and girlfriend but we wont date yet! I think you should push yourself into dating just when you find a guy go and ask him out

Amen I barrly have time to have fun. But you have to make time for yourself and if you socialize like if you go to a party fine a guy that interests you and talk. Believe me boys will talk to cheerleaders being one myself. Or get a puppy.

think about it this way, beinq single you can 1. flirt non stop 2.dont have to worry about what other boys will say 3.chose who you want to date . think aboutt the pro's of beinq sinqle. it helps me all the time .