Tips for getting girls

honestly and dont go get information from some site...what do girls love from a guy and what do you love to hear? any girl just post what makes them like a guy

Hmm, say beautiful not hot. Beautiful makes it sound like you like them for who they are. Hot makes it sound like you're trying to get in their pants. Talk about their interests. Don't try to show off b/c then you will just look like a retard. Do small gestures to show you care like opening doors and offering to do small things for her. just try to be sweet but smooth.

Treat this advice as solid gold, because I am one of the few people who actually does things straight from the inside and not what I should do, and thats what you should be doing as well. I use thsi website for advice all the time but when I met the most wonderful girl ever, I didn't even think about coming on here and asking because, I just told her everything I felt. I wasn't afraid what she thought, either way, I wanted her to know how I felt and I really cared. I asked her for a kiss, asked her if she felt comftorable, asked her if she wanted me to take my arm from around her, etc.. and when she talked insecure about her looks, I didn't try to make her feel better, I told her what I thought. I told her not everyone is going to agree that she is the most beautiful girl in the world but I let her know that I thought she was perfect. When I lay beside her in her room, I dont attack her with kisses and try to get in her pants. I hug her as tight as I can and I touch her neck and her cheeks and just look in her eyes. It doesnt matter if she doesnt like me being so open, and I know she really does, but even if she didn't Id want her to know how I felt anyways.

The best thing you can do is just do what you feel is right. whats the worst that can happen? You hold the door for her, tell her she's beautiful, ask her for a hug, and if for some reason she doesnt find that attractive you lose knowing that you lost because you showed her that you cared?

Put yourself in the situation. I'd be in heaven if my girlfriend told me how she felt about me all the time and did what she felt for me. And she does.

This will work for anybody because it is solid truth. Give good advice to her, not rehearsed advice. Tell her what you truley think, even if it's bad, put it in good words. This can work for anybody, I am 17 and I'm only 5'4, Im a tiny guy, she is bigger than me, my friends are better looking than me, taller, bigger, manlier, funnier, more interesting. I ask myself all the time whats so special about me, but I guess it's because I love her and nobody else does. I do whats right, because if it doesnt work out, I'd want her to know how I felt anyways.

I agree with the guy above me, and I'd like to add in a harsher tone that it's stupid and sounds like you'd just be trying to pick up some girls using lines rather than getting to know them from your question. Girls don't 'love to hear' anything in general, they like to be complimented when you mean it, they like to be appreciated when you mean it, it's the thought behind it that counts not the line in itself. So, if you have to remember to or plan to say something specific, you're being fake and most can see right through that. Be yourself and let her see who you really are, and if you think something nice about her don't hold back and just say it. There you go.

Hmm... well, if I could hear the perfect things from a guy, I think that I would want to hear that I am beautiful; that they love spending time with me; whether Im in sweats or a dress, they still love the way I look; how Im the only girl they want to be with; that they would wait until Im comfortable to do anything; they value our differences and how we are alike; and they like my personality too, and not just my looks.
Best of luck!
Jackie

hi

first of all, I'm a girl. haha just wanted to make that clear. Second, I really hate when guys call me hot or sexy! My ex would text me and be like, I love you my smokin hot sexy baby..Personally, I thought it was disgusting and corny!!! What we REALLY want to hear is we're beautiful..and we want to know you mean it. Lol I don't really look that good, so I think my ex was lying..hehe. Oh, it depends what the girl likes...be different, yet alike in some ways. and get to know her first..nothing is worse than an awkward relationship!!! Lol I have lots to say..personally, I don't like when they right away ask me to kiss them (I'm thirteen..so its a lil much for me) or have sex. And if you say I love you, MEAN IT!!! Once again, nothing is worse than someone faking it!!! I hope this helped funmail me or something if you need anymore advice.