Is four months too soon for sex?

okay well my boyfriend and I have been dating almost four months now. and weve done everything except sex because we made the decision to wait. but we both want to really badly. but we dont want to become dependent on it. but I kind of want it to be for...

our 4 month anniversary. is that too soon? im scared or anything though because I trust him.

I think it's good that once a relationship has become more than just a dating for fun, don't know if it will work out yet type of thing to talk about sex. Talk to your boyfriend about his views on sex (before marriage = ok?, etc) and come to an agreement on the matter.

Well you if feel it is honestly the right time discuss it with him and see wat he thinks, if you trust him and he treats you right then go for it. Just be safe about it also.

Go for it if its what you both want ...