Threesome husband

My husband told me that he wants to have sex with me and another girl from his old job for one time deal. Is this normal for your spouse to think like this at all? Should I let him have his way at it?is he trying to tell me something about her or else?

I dont think its normal for him to think that way, but for him to ask you to do something like that is disrespectful don't you think? He is saying that he wants you to give him permission to have a sexual encounter with another woman. Not only that, but he wants to do it in your presence! And, have you included in the action?? I do not believe it is ok for you take part or allow him to 'indulge' in such activites. Thats like the both of you commiting adultery right in front of each other.

No its not normal. Not that your husband is the only guy to have ever thought of this, but if he was a normal good husband then no he would not even be thinking of this. Stand your ground hun and tell him how it is. Maybe get counciling. But don't hurt yourself to make him happy.

how do you feel?... do you really want to give into the situation? in my oppinion, I think that jax has said it all!! do you really want to 'share' your husband with some other lady? it's normal for a male to have fantasies, but if your husband is a good man, you should be the only woman in his life!!

ofcoarse its normal .
find me a guy thats never wanted a 3sum and ill find you a liar
but um yeah, look at it this way...he is telling you sabout this so oviously it interests him ...but not enough to do it withoutyou
and he oviously finds you really attractive because he imagined you in it.
if you dont want to you dont have to but it may be fun
as for getting worried about wheather hes trying to tell you something about her its just a fantasie...hes married to you isint he.
in my experience 3sums are fun...just make shure you feel completely comfterable with it or else youll have some probles later on.

Ok...well maybe this could be a fantasy of his, and there is nothing wrong with fantasizing, but I WOULD NOT ALLOW THIS.. because this could tear the marriage apart...go ahead and ride it out, and tell him it is not going to happen, that he is going to have to get over it..anyways, good luck...
xx.
superfresh.

yes, it is normal
for some guys its a once off thing they want to experience
but if your voth deeply in love, then he shouldnt have to suggest it
you should be enough
you dont let him have his way
you need to be 100% okay with this if you let him
its something that requires both of you to not becaome attatched to after its happened, and not get angry with each other, ect
if you cant see yourself doing that, or arnt up for idea then dont
tell him you dont want to
experimenting is fine
but BOTH of you need to be comfportable doing it if its going to happen

Absolute normal, and be happy of that he is open enough to tell and ask you about it. I advice you to give him this present, maybe you will also enjoy it. It will get you closer to each other. This is much more healthy and manlike then watching stupid porns as substitute of real life events.

Absolute normal, and be happy of that he is open enough to tell and ask you about it. I advice you to give him this present, maybe you will also enjoy it. It will get you closer to each other