Threesome??

I want to have a threesome with my partner but don't want to ask one of out friends to join us. What would be the best way to find a person to join us?

What are you wanting to get out of having a 3some? Do you want another guy? another girl? Some men enjoy watching their female partner having intercourse with another man. Some enjoy watching their girl with another girl. Some want to watch and some want to join. As long as you are in a healthy and strong relationship you should be fine. Doing this will not fix a broken relationship. Marriages have broken up because of this while others have become stronger.
It will be easier to get another single guy than it is a single girl. Finding a couple to begin with may be your best and easiest option.

Are you sure you want to do this? I would say becareful and get the person you chose tested, but i am sure there are about a gazillion swinger websites out there. I don't really think this is good for a relationship, but thats my opinion.

Jason

Ya there are lots of swinger sites out there, http://www.adultfriendfinder.com is one.

But my opinion is the same as jason, u sure this is what you want? I mean i wouldnt want to share my partner, especially with another bloke and if it was another woman i would feel i was cheating on my partner. And even though these site are quite reputable it still seems quite dodgy...

Tom

i dont think its a good idea either... you really want someone else all over your partner. what if it causes problems for you two and what if you regret it. does your partner want to have one as well? getting a friend to do it could cause a lot of awkwardness after.. but then again getting some random person could be dangerous.

my partner does want to.. he mentioned it a few months ago while we were talking. I don't want to ask a friend because of the awkwardness it could cause. We would definately use protection. I am not 100% sure of it, for the same reasons you all mentioned, but I just thought I would look into finding someone with my partner incase we do go through with it.

Its bad for the relationship IMO, one of you will feel different afterwards, and it could/will change the relationship for the worse.

I think it is a bad and good idea,your basically experimenting and thats fine. But yeah be really careful with who you want to choose and stuff.

i agree with smedheader once again(u no we think too muh alike)
you wantin to have athreesum is completely normal
and shure it could cause problems in your relationshipo but i highly doubt it.the things to remember are.......
1.be carefull
2.use protection
3.have fun
thats what sex is fun....shure theres bonding but in the teens its about fun
if i were you id find a friend.....youll find your more comfterablle that way
well bibi
-v-

great ! As a women I can tell you that me and my man Bill would / WELCOME / A girl to join us in bed for / An all nite !!! / of FUN AND GAMES Eeee!!!

Everyone has a different opinion of course! I just had my first threesome and it felt really weired, not for my lady but for me. We didn't start or end it right. If you choose to have a threesome you have to plan it out by talking it over with your partner first and figure out what the other partner can do and can't do. Always make sure that this is only for fun, and keep the emotions out. Eventhough, my first time was a disaster, I'm still wiling to give it a few more tries.

Mark,

I don't know my boy friend and I have been thinking of how to approach the subject. We do not know who to ask, and if we did we would not know how to bring it up.