This is long but i need help please !! cheated........

Someone I need good advice this is serious, I have dug myself so deep into a bunch of lies and the guilt is starting to kill me slowly. I love my boyfriend very much we have always had a relationship where we would fight constantly. Mainly over the...

littlest things like him looking at another woman me looking at another man, we are very jealous people but love each other to death and are crazy about each other. We fought so much is wasn’t funny the fights were getting very serious at one stage and I knew I had to move out of his place. So I moved out and back home with my parents. We started to go ok with each other still fought over stupid things. The only big issue was that because I dint live with him anymore he didn’t know where I was 24/7 same as me with him. So when it came to a night where I was in bed asleep he would go out on the town and look for me, not believe I was at home. And I would do the same. I guess I felt comfort in another man and started seeing Brent, I didn’t see him that often probably about 6 times over the past 5 months. Brent and I just basically had sex that’s all. I still thought my boyfriend was more gorgeous and loved him more than anything ever. But why was I cheating on him? I don’t get it. So anyway long story short, my boyfriend went out one night and got rotten drunk and he cheated on my, he didn’t have sex with the chick just kissed her, she happened to be a friend of my friend. I caught him holding hands with her, and let go and ignored her straight away when he seen me. So that did it for me I was so angry. He had also went out the weekend before that and I was told by a friend that she seen him talking to another chick I confronted him and he denied it all, then I asked why he had a stamp on his and everything and he gave in but swore he didn’t remember talking to a chick (ect). Ok so it wasn’t until Monday (2 days ago) I went and seen Brent, and told my boyfriend I was going to an appointment. My boyfriend didn’t believe me and rang every clinic in the phone book to see where I really went. I told him I couldn’t remember where It was as I don’t know my way around that well and I got a friend to show me where it was and then she left, he called me friend and she kind of played along with it and told him she didn’t remember the street name. he is furious. He wants me to tell him the name and street of the clinic I said I went to. Im not going to tell him the truth but I don’t know what to do. I love him and realise that I want him. Im never going to see brent again as I put a stop to it. Please what should I do. I feel guilty should I just find a clinic in the phone book and tell him I went to that one or what???? Please???????

If u really lv this guy and he really lvs u, then u both have 2 come clean c each other. u have both cheated (yes, a kiss is still cheating) so something is happening in your relationship that u both have to face. sit and talk aboutit rationally. See where you both want this relationship to go cause a relationship without honesty and trust is not a relationship at all. I wish you all the best of luck and hope you get everything you want.

just tell him you really dont remember were it was so your gunns try to find one close because you thought you were pregnant but still dident take a test so call a clinic and make an app and tell him if he wants to go with and STOP SEEING THAT OTHER GUY BEFORE IT GETS WORSE thats all i could help u with

Thank you heaps Mel 2005, thanks heaps. I have stopped seeing the other guy. I realised i dont have the same strong connection i have with my bf. It worked out ok, he still has his doubts to where i really was though. Thanks again.