This is for girls only, about dating

girls, be honest, and please dont lie about this:

have you ever messed around wiht someone that was way too old or young for you?

such as

15 year old girl with a 23 year old guy, and age differences that range 5 to 9 years?
I dont think im that...

far off, I think more people do it then we know. so have you? and then what did you feel afterward? awkward? guilty? happy?

Im talking anything from sex, kissing, messing around, all that stuff. And I mean doing it because you wanted to, or felt like you should, all that.

Im a girl, by the way, and I want to hear what else we have to say.

No I honeslty never messed around with someone that older or younger then me.

But to me it looks weird b/c he can go into a club and drink and you cant even go into a 18 and older club, I dont see what the guys intentions would be with a 15 year old girl, dont get me wrong theres a lot of couples that make it together regardless of the age difference but then again there 27 and the other is 34 that makes more since b/c there grown and mature.
I mean im trying to imagine my 23 year old friends telling me that he has to pick up his freshmen g/f from HS all of us would be like wtf. im not trying to judge or me mean im jsut letting you know how I see it from my prespective.
Girly I really think that a 23 year old guy with a 15 year old girl is odd. there are too many differences in age, maturity, and experience. he could easily tell you a lie and you wold fall for it. all im saying is dont be naive.
=D

me...I was 13 and dated a 17 yr old

When I was 19, I dated a 40 year old man.

Yes, huge age difference, and I was the same age as his oldest son. A lot of people had a hard time with it, and in the end, it turned out we had nothing in common.

That doesn't mean two people of varying ages can't be compatible, but I can't condone the pairing of a minor to an adult...there are laws against that for a reason.

The biggest age difference was 4 years - I was 19 and he was 23.

The biggest age difference with a younger guy is my fiance now - he's almost 2 years younger than me. He's 21 - I'm 23.

That being said - I was never a minor dating an older man and I do NOT condone those relationships.

When I was 14 I was going out with a 17 year old lad, didnt last long though, because he was only after one thing =(, but im sure if your happy then theres nothing to worry about? and if you know your not getting messed around, then whats wrong about it =\, I dont see it being wrong or anything as long as you know where you stand and he knows where he stands kinda thing.

When I was 15 I went out with a 20 year old. Lasted quite awhile.
It just felt strange because I was in highschool and he was attending college.
He got to do so much more than me. As in going to bars, drinking, ect.
But, I WAS extremely happy to be with him. Though, there were awkward times.
He kept telling me he was doing none of the bar, drinking stuff because he knew it bothered me.
We ended up splitting. Since he was older than me, he wanted to get more serious.
When I say more serious, I mean marriage and all that. I'm too young to think of any of that. It put a lot of stress on me.

Still to this day, he's been trying to get back with me.
But, I'm exceedingly happy with my current boyfriend.