Is this guy lying or testing me?

I finally e-mailed the guy...askin for him to just be honest. He replied back. He said he thinks I'm cool..I'm just not what he's lookin 4 at the moment cuz he likes to have fun and I don't seem willing to join in and that he doesn't wanna force me to...

do something I'm not ready to do. He also says he really likes being my friend but nothing else right now..but don't give up hope though cuz trust me you have a chance. He then goes on sayin how girls have hurt him in the past and he doesn't think I will. Then he says I still have a chance..just stick in there and show that I'm still interested. So the question is...WHAT IS HE SAYIN? I can't tell if he's just really being honest, if he's lyin or if he's testing me...maybe it's all 3..Idk.. HELP PLEASE!!

He has got a BIG ego problem! Dont give up hope, you still have a chance? He doesnt want to force you to do something you dont wanna do? Hes got one thing on his mind, and he is hoping to bring you in closer so you'll give in. If a guy truly likes a girl, he wouldnt go around using that same old line, I've been hurt in the past, and i dont want a relationship right now. What he is trying to tell you, (since he knows how you feel about him) is...your not the one i want to have a relationship with, but i would love to be friends with benefits!

Dont give him anymore of your time. He isnt worth it! If he really liked you, he wouldnt be playing these childish games. He knows you are attracted to him, and hes hoping for the friends with benefits part, and nothing more from you! Realize he is a jerk, and find someone who will give you the time, and respect you deserve!

O.K. your 18 years old and this guys typing messages to you like that of an 8th grader. His mixed signals indicate that he is totally flattered by your obvious interest in him but he also enjoys a good game of hard to get. Guys typically don't get sensitive to girls hurting them in the past but do tend to bring it up to girls just coming into the picture. Doing so, guys believe that it shows a vulnerable side to them to get that feel sorry me effect from you. Trust me I've used it before. Also, if he is the same age as you or a bit older, theres one thing on his mind, you know what I mean. By him telling you that he likes fun and thinks that your not willing to join, thats pretty much saying he wants some tail but you don't come off as an easy target. I'm pretty sure hes expecting a reply about now of you begging him to give you chance to show him how fun you can be.

Now that I have ratted out my fellow man, you can do what you feel is best for yourself. He may be a great guy but between the ages of 16-24+...we are walking hard ons. I'm still fighting that urge on a daily basis. Good luck to you.