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This guy im scared of but love...help?

Asked by daisy_of_love 4 months ago, 7 answers.

okay so im going out with this guy that I've known for a year and hes 16 and im 14 and yes he smokes pot and is a alchohalic but idc...anyways weve had sex before when we were friends and yesterday he was like guess and I said guess wht? and he was like...

ull see so I said ok and finally he got on top of me and was like I wanna go out with you and I said yes ( we are like twins we are both alike) and so im just afraid if yes was the wrong answer I love him and hes letting my bunny live with him and not moving to vegas for me and all we do all day is have sex its I don't know wierd so did I make the wrong decision or not because im deeply in love with him but scared but in a good way kinda how like bella loved edward cullen in twilight please help! -isabella (daisy)

Answered by justme_xd on Jul 27, 2009, 06:28PM
89 answers

then why do you love him ?

if you don't even get attention?

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Answered by justme_xd on Jul 27, 2009, 06:21PM
89 answers

Mabye you think you love him because he gives you so much attention
(this wasn't meant to sound rude)
but it kinda sounds to me like thats all he wants from you,

you said all you do is sex, no dates? long talks ?
those are all really important parts of a relationship
and im sorry hunnyy,
but you can't have a meaningful relationship thats just sexual,

It sounds to me like you made the wrong choice,
and mabye you should end things?
It will take a while to get over him, but when you find somebody you REALLY love,

you'll know happy

funmail me for more. happy

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Answered by daisy_of_love on Jul 27, 2009, 06:24PM
29 answers

we have long talks to and he doesnt give me any attention..barely trust me...

Answered by lauren_ox on Jul 27, 2009, 06:33PM
12 answers

Hey Sweetie,
Maybe you just feel that if you say no, you may lose him forever. The truth is, hunny, it sounds like he only wants you for the sex. I think whats best for you - and for him, is to break up. But, before you do this, you should consider signing him up for some help with the drinking, that way he'll know your trying to help him too.
Hope this helps sweetie, please dont be afraid if you need more advice.
Ox.

Answered by bigtm on Jul 27, 2009, 06:40PM
61 answers

if he dont trust you then you shouldnt be dating

Answered by daisy_of_love on Jul 27, 2009, 08:31PM
29 answers

god he does trust me and I don't know this is like a twilight love story you love him but are scared god no1 is gettin it : ( -daisy

Answered by heidiprytherch on Jul 29, 2009, 10:51PM
15 answers

ummm. really. I know I dont know you. but think about it logically. I am 14 too.

1. its illegal. theres a good reason for believing you made the wrong choice.
2. he smokes pot and he is an alcoholic at 16. that's illegal and just wrong. I mean, it may not be his fault but he should get some help.
3. he only wants to have sex with you?

It seems to me that you made a bad choice. maybe you could tell him you dont what to get too serious until he has gotten some help? and maybe you shouldnt have as much sex wth him? I dont know.

sorry if this was not helpful. sad I am bad at advice but I have an idea of right and wrong.