Should I continue what we have if he doesn't want to be official?

well there was this guy that I have been seeing for awhile now and I really like him. so last night we were on the phone and I told him I wanted to be his gurlfriend. so he tells me he likes me a lot but, he just got out of a relationship about a year ago and he needs sometime to focuse on himself! he told me he enjoys the times we spend together and that im funny, and just a very kool person! he has a gift for me that he wants to give me and im scared to take it! im so head over heals for this guy and I need to no whut should I do! do I continue to be with him and have sex and continue to see each other, or do I totally need to end this friendship that we have going on! I found myself crying all last night and a little this morning! do you guys think that I will continue to see him! please help whut am I suppose to do!

I think you should continue being friends with him. hang out again, get close, and eventually, when the time is right, tell him how you feel again. by then, maybe he will be over the other relatioinship and move onto you.

you should continue seeing him,untill he's ready to begin something more than a friendship.. But.. if you are having sex with him, that should stop.

Nothing ever comes out of being friends with benefits! Someone ALWAYS ends up getting hurt. You should stop having sex with him! He was being nice when he said those things about you, because he doesnt want you to think hes just using you, which he is. A decent respectful guy would NEVER take advantage of a girl sexually, without wanting a commitment with her. Dont be a fool. Hes already told you he doesnt want a relationship. If he has a gift for you...that is a sign he just wants you to keep sleeping with him. Having sex with a guy is NOT a way to get him to like you, or commit to you. Find someone who actually wants a relationship without the benefits!

In my opinion I think it's best that you two just stay friends. If you guys known each other for so long and everything been going great for you guys then yes, stay friends! Now for the acting as if ya'll are in a relationship when honestly you're not then thats nothing but 'friends with benefits' and someone feelings will mostly get hard...and since you already fallen hard for him it most likely be you. So, just be there as a friend and take things slow. Be there for him when he needs you the most and give him his space. If its meant for the two of you to be together then eventually one day you guys will. I wish you all the luck hun!