Thinking about the bestfriend

See I#039;ve been going out with this guy for 4 months...ya we#039;ve had ruff patches but we#039;re okay. I#039;ve gone out with my fiancee 3 times. The 1st time for 2 weeks, the 2nd time for 3 weeks and now. Well last time we broke up I ended up...

kissing his best friend. We flirted and I started to like him. We#039;ll he moved on!!! So I did too!! Now me and my fiancee have been great. Then a month ago me and my fiancee#039;s bestfriend started flirting again and I think I like him again. We had phone sex 3 times. Then he moved on...but 2 days ago he came over with my fiancee and we were flirting...the that night we had phone sex again... see im so confused... I cant figure out who I like more...all my friends say I seem happier with my fiancees best friend... and to make it worse his bestfriend his hot one minute and cold the next!!!! what do I do????

Lots of confusion going on, including myself.
I will be direct. What do you mean by fiancee#039;? In most terms a finacee#039; is an engagement with someone to be married, not the beginning of dating. Dating is an important time to learn if this person is somone that can become a life partner, parent to your children, and other important elements. You sound like you have many great experiences and relationships in your future that will teach you to understand your confused feelings. Until you can understand yourself and what motivates and makes you happy can you indentify the right partner. As for his best friend...come on...everyone knows that will turn out bad and hurt someone?