What if my girlfriend and i have different views on abortion?

SO my girlfriend and i have been dating and I don’t think either of us expected to or pushed the issue but our relationship turned into a sexual one. And in any relationship like this I think getting pregnant is an issue no matter what you do if you’re...

having sex it can happen. And of course we have done things to avoid it because I don’t think either of us is ready for that responsibility yet but because we have sex it can happen so we have talked about this. And even though I don’t think were ready for a kid if it happened because of the choices we make I would take the responsibility and go with it was my choice my consequences. But when we talk about what can happen her answer is “If I'm pregnant you will just have to give me three hundred dollars.” I cant believe that her answer is to just have an abortion. We kind of got in a fight about this subject already because I don’t believe abortion is ever an option. The child deserves a chance at life and especially since it would be mine. I was wondering if there is any advice on how to deal with this or to talk to her about it because I'm okay if were not having sex. I loved her before we did I love her now and will continue to love her even if were not having sex its not that important to me to have to deal with getting in a fight with her or possibly a break up about it or to be in that situation where I have to decide what to do about her because she is pregnant and wants to have an abortion.

um...dont get her pregnant!!!!! simple as that......everytime you have sex wear a condom and get her to go on birth control as an extra method so there is no chance she can get pregnant and you wont have to deal with it.
But if.........if the slight chance comes thru that she does get pregnant it is her body and her choice wat she wants to do with the baby. If she wants an abortion there isnt much you can do.

Well this is an issue with many people. i happen to have your side in this issue because i lost an aunt to an abortion. But the easiest thing is to try as hard as you can to get her pregnan. you can use a condom and she can be on brith control that way there is not baby. but try to talk to her about what she said. make her see a your side.
hoped this helped.
-kcutie

yeah jenns right bro.**..yeah i know what u mean about the whole abortion thing..its not an e z thing to consume....my gurl and i had a scare like that and her answer was the same...3 hundred dollers'' i fill the same way as u about this....but also take into consideration your future .....my advice to u is be strong and take this expierence as a lesson and it should build to your good character and make u aware of your full potential! be a soldier about it and if shes not ready then dont force her...everything happens for good reasons....just wrap up next time(just for shiits and giggles) dude none of us can live w/out sex u know that?? haha but yeah talk it over w/her and if she says no just accecpt it and dont make a big deal out of it cuz it wont change anything!!

im in this situation and i have never felt so helpless and out of control, I have said all i can say and i don't think it is going to help. I am looking out for the child and myself, on top of my girlfriend