The mind of a "player"

ok guys, I will not be mad or upset, I just want to know. what goes on in your mind when your dating a girl and making her believe things that are not true.

1st question: is it true that when you pick out the girl you like, do you have every...

intention on playing her from the start, or do yall just fall into it?

2nd question: is it true that as long as you act like the guy she wants you to be and not yourself that you wont develope any feeling with her.. as in fall in love with her and forget that your on a mission?

3rd question: why cant a girl be a player? I mean c'mon guys, yall can get two women in the same bed with you, and your like dubbed to be a sex god where as if we do the same with men, were sluts?

4th and final question: I recently got dumped and would like to call off alll guys until graduation, but I still want to date, so just to make my question clear... is there any tips you boys can give me so I can be a so called female player for the time being?

thank you!
this may sound gay for me ask these things, but im desprate.
and feeling very revengful at the momment.

love you!!

girls can be payers boy just want to be on top they think they are the men when there not us girl let them think that why so we can get what we want from them
so I your men thainks hes a player let him think that but realy you r the player he needs you u dont need him there many boy out there for you so just think of your self as a palyer but play them like they play u love nieya

1) Most don't even see it as playing, its just a natural thing for them. So they know they will end up playing her.

2) I wouldn't say its a mission - an opportunity comes up and they take it, which leads to playing their girlfriend. Players don't care about love, they care about getting what they want.

3) There are tons of female players out there, yeah they get called sluts but its the same thing.

4) Why would you want to be a player? Hypocrite much?
Your sitting here complaining about players yet you want to become one, sure go for it, become a slut. Go let everyone in your pants and just be easy if that's what you want to do. Yuck!

well stephanief987 that was some good advice but number 4 was a bit to mean

female players are independent women that play the same game as thoose players out there. I dont see it as a slut at all girls and boys do the same shiet just different ways

play like a player so you dont get played like a b*tch!

do be a female player you just tease boys, have the fall in love with you, say watever you need to, and in the end break there harts liek they do to you, gusy dotn care so why should you.

I consider myself as a player even though im a girl im not a slut. go ahead say watever you want about us female players but were not sluts we simply know how to play the game (: