The hair down there :/

is it really that important to shave it???
I mean are gurls supposed to shave their crotch like they shave their legs??
will guys think its gross to have hair??
cus I dont shave.

It's a personal preference.

A mature guy won't really care, but if you want you can just trim it if it makes you feel better.

a lot of guys like it when girls just shave it all off and keep it that way

I am also stuck with this subject, I'm 13, and my mum doesnt know I shave, so I cant have a wax done lol. When I shave 'down there' I get a shaving rash, that no boy would find atractive, but I definatley dont want to tell my mum, its just one off those things, I meen she has showed me how to shave and everything, but its complicated. I want to shave it all off, because there could be a boy
Please help, is there any cream or somthing.
Thanks ♥

hiya. hard being a girl isnt it- we are made to feel as if we need to remove most of our body hair. Thing is pubic hair isnt on show to everyone, just some one you choose to become intimate with and they shouldnt be bothered. However the younger generation especially seems to prefer the hairless look and maybe come across it more often therefore they expect it somewhat. The best thing to do is to trim with scissors close to the skin or however is preferred. Thebn its not too bushy ! but shaving can be irritating to your skin and you have to keep it up so avoid it if you can (remeber every1 has different preferences but the maturer someone is the less they will judge on natural things like that) x

You should do what YOU want to. Not what some immature boy wants. It's your body. Therefore your choice. If a boy loves you he won't care. I promise you that. In my opinion it's a part of you. It's supposed to be there. And it's not unhygenic. And shaving leaves nasty nicks and awful ingrown hairs. Best bet trim it with scissors.

pubic hair on a female has never bothered me, I like the 70's look as a matter of fact.

so I agree with most of the above advice, make your decision one way or the other and don't lose too much sleep over it.

im 14 and I prefer it when a girl shaves it all off but its just my preference