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The "first time" ... help help help...

Asked by loveeyuu 2 months ago, 6 answers.

Well..me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex for the first time.. And I have no ideaa what to do??!.. Like I know what to do, but how do I get him horny and stuff like that?? And will it hurt?? And will I cum fast with him there??.. Please...

please I need answers! Lolz !..

Answered by jazlovestoskate on Sep 11, 2009, 02:55AM
10508 answers

your only 13, you really should wait
no, it wont wreck your body
unless you got an std or ended up pregnant
which is very possible considereing at your age you have little if any sex education
so remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it or start getting sexually active
learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system
birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds
don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it
because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds
is because of a lack of sex education

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Answered by mandycats on Sep 11, 2009, 12:47AM
257 answers

NO! NO! NO! You are going to screw your self over! you are way to young and I figure I mind as well tell you even tho your not gonna listen to good advice when it comes to you, PLEASE WAIT YOUR 2 YOUNG!!! I was 15 when I had sex for the first time , I regret it with all of my being! its gonna get you in bigger trouble down the road! wait till your at least 17 1/2. its not long trust me. PLEASE WAIT!

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Answered by loveeyuu on Sep 11, 2009, 12:56AM
3 answers

omg omgg thank you sooo much !!! :D:D

Answered by loveeyuu on Sep 11, 2009, 12:59AM
3 answers

will it like wreak my body or something??

Answered by jaxx on Sep 11, 2009, 06:07AM
55 answers

agreed, dont have sex so young... you will regret it sooo much... it happened to me!! a lot of woman clearly... you definately need to be in love and have trust!!

--- it wont physically mess you up but emotionally it will... and who wants to regret something so important and special...

Answered by anythingyouwant202 on Sep 13, 2009, 04:33PM
17 answers

NO GOODNESS NO!
I HAVE NO ROOM TO TALK BECAUSE I LOST MY VIRGINITY WHEN I WAS FOURTEEN, YOU WILL TOTALLY REGRET IT!!
AFTER IT HAPPENS IT RELLY ISN'T WORTH IT, AND YOU END UP WISHNG YOU HAD IT BACK, AND YOU WISH IT WAS WITH THA SPECIAL PERSON YOU WILL SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH.
AND YOU WILL ALSO HAVE TO GO TO THE GYNOCOLOGIST AFTER YOU DO IT SO YOU CAN DO LIKE YOUR EALY CHECKUP OR WHATEVER.
IT REALLY ISNT WORTH IT AND YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS COOL AND OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING IT BUT YOU REALLY WILL REGRET IT!!!

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