Can you tell a girl you love them after meeting them?

can you tell the girl ''I love you'' when you meet with her at first time?

No, unless you want her to think that you are a weirdo or something. Instead of saying 'I love you.' , compliment her looks or something Hope this helps.

No, I wouldn't.
Even if you do feel like its 'love' at first sight, never tell her right away because she might get a litle bit freaked out by it. I do believe in love at fist sight personally, but atleast date and wait a while to make sure, then choose a better time to tell her.

ok ok let me post you a blog I have on myspace about me and my wife and how we meet one second...

Friday, December 29, 2006
story of kevin and jennifer
Current mood: happy

all started when I was feeling in need of a friend, I meet friends online which drove from pikeville to sweetwater to see my friend andrew holt, her name was debbie, I noticed everyone had a friend or somone but me? how sad I was if anyone could have seen it it was sad, my heart feeling as abandond like bambi !, so I asked debbie who this jennifer girl was on her myspace, and she told me. I imed her and she at first began to ignore me until she deicded to speak one day maybe she was bored I have no clue, she kept making excuses not to talk to me to avoid me because she assumed I was a BAD GUY, like the others she had previously dated, before I meet her I had told her she would fall in love with me, that she would marry me some day, I prophecied over somthing I knew nothing about, then we meet in person, didnt go so well we just ignored each other and bad stuff started, and she made some bad decisions, few weeks ago I ws sitting in my house, getting ready to pull out the old razor and go cutting away on myself because everything god has given he he has taken from me,about that time I recieved an im that said im sorry, so me having to have the last word in everything, replied I dont forgive u because you hurt me, words were exchanged and anger from the 2 of us were confritating, until she said she loved me right in the middle of war like a flower in a desert, the chances of that flower being real are 1 out of 100, I was in shock! didnt know wut to do or say, except at that moment a feeling inside me stirred up, a moment of silence was in my head, somthing you will never see happen to me,for once the loud and the kevin that has an answer for everything was without an answer,but slowly outta my mouth the words I love you I said,knowing she cannot hear me I was finding myself with a tear falling from my face because jsut once in my life I needed to be loved,and who to love me then the one I said would, we started talking and before we had ever even kissed I asked her to marry me, a girl I have no clue about I was asking to marry me? some may say kevin your crazy! well I am crazy for this girl, she said yes! and at the moment visions of our lives were flashing in front of me! a love that even webster cannot describe, I went to meet her after all we had spoke online and notice the last we had meet well didnt go that well, soon as I seen her she walked right past me,!! didnt say a word, I looked down with a sad face thinking can this be again, then all of a sudden from the back arms wrapped around me I turned around and there I was stairing into the eyes of my future wife! to the one I love and the girl in my dreams I've always dreamed of but could never put a face with her, until now, I love this girl soo much, we laugh,we cry,we fight, we are meant to be, and I am not about to spend another 18 years of my life alone, I need her, I dont just want her I need her, she is my modivation,she is my source and she is my guide,she is also my love, and she is my best friend, and if thats not a good enough reason to marry her then I dont need a good reason, I love her and will spend the rest of my life with her!

and that is my love story!

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and this is what happnened 3 weeks later

Thursday, January 18, 2007

MARRIED on 1-16-07

well I told everyone I would Marry jennifer and it happend!!!,I was so nervious people let me tell you all the decorating and everything . our wedding was in pikeville at Calvary Freewill Baptist church,our wedding colors were white and red, the church was white and red as well,pictures will be up soon. I was so nervious I was shaking my best men(my bro and andrew holt) were standing in the bathroom and suporting me lol,boy was I scared,not scared if my decision was the best I had known it was,nervious to know my life is comming together, things are falling in place for my life and your always afraid of new things,I love her so much I remember when she walked down the isle she did not take her eyes off of me the whole time,both our eyes were locked,it was like falling in love all over again, I held back the tears kind of lol, she was soo beautiful if not the most georgious thing I have ever seen,we exchanged our vows, I went to the piano and played a song I had wrote for her, tears came down peoples face,it was the most special day of my life,I am now complete instead of incomplete, my mother and my family was all there which was really important because at first they couldnt come,but things work themselves out,it was the people asked me man this wedding must have costed at least 5 grand,lets say it was all taken care of by people who belive in me and jennifer, people who care, our wedding was candle lite it was beatiful you shall see pictures soon .my eyes are still aching from the flashes of cameras, an estimated of 2300 photos were taken that day thats just from her side of family,they love pictures!I dont on the other hand, anyways we went downstairs to our reception it was awesome lots of food and drinks and everything, unfortunatly I didnt get to spike the punch because jenifer wouldnt let me and the fact my little brother is a handleful enough sober,plus he is 6 be he would take 1 for the team!!! lol j/k, we went to our new apartment afterwards, had a candle lite bubble bath, I washed her from head to toe guys lol oo yea! we had the most romantic night that night other then we had to go to walmart to pick up a few things lol... thats it! you guys will see the pics soon until then im out!

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dont let anyone tell you nothing your heart says. its not wrong to do that, whats wrong is making the mistake not to take the dive,some of the biggest regrets in life is the rish you didnt take!!! good luck if you need anything hit me up on myspace