How can i be less possessive of my boyfriend?

I have a boyfriend, whom I've become very attatched to.
Even more so than my first love who I thought I was never going to get over.

I do realize how over protective, territorial, and aggressive I get when other girls are around,
but it's come to...

the point where, I'd rather terminate my best friends relationship than to lose him. (One of the most idiotic things a girl could say, I know. )
He's very financially stable, we're planning on moving in, in a few months, marriage is around the corner after a few months of living together. Funniest most intelligent man I've ever come across. We enjoy going out and actually doing things just as well as sitting at home playing video games.
It's a picture perfect story to me, and I want nothing to ruin it.
I'd go to great lengths to make it work.

I get so irritated and upset myself when I've heard that they've been chit chatting.
Or something as miniscule as a myspace picture comment that isn't even relevant to the main object in the picture.
I don't even like them sitting next to each other.

Paranoia is killing me.
I never used to be like this.
I know for a fact if I keep pushing them together and being an immature twat about things, I'm just gonna run him off.

I guess what my question is; How do I let myself know everything is okay, when my friend is around my boyfriend and I?

Realise that he is with you!!! and he is aloud to have relationships with other females, just becos they have a vagina doesnt mean he wants it pardon the french. He is moving in with you, marriage is around the corner you said......realise that the only thing that could ruin it is if you become so over protective and restrict him from even having a conversation with a female that your gonna push him away becos he is gonna feel like he is on a leash. Unless these girls are calling his phone or messaging him saying hey baby miss you and so on.....you have nothing to worry about.

wow,
i have the same problem
but im not moving in with my boyfriend.
:S

we in every confursasion there in and try to keep up with whats going on. sometimes just cuz u think u can trust some of ur close friends then can turn on u over some guys...and trust me thats never goes down well. just be a ware that ur friend and ur by are there to hang out with u

you need to relax. be confident in yourself and reassert the situation. don't be a stalker. if he's not the one than he's not the one. you must be what, 19 years old, if that. you have your whole life. now, relax.

i had the same problem with my ex
just invite two of your friends over
it has to be two so ur friends attention focuses on the other friend
hold your boyfriend arm alot
if your going out to dinner or eating in round a table
sit opposite him so u can link feet under the table and sit next to the friend ur paranoied about, then the second friend sits next to ur bf that way
they can talk, but you know for certaint hey cant do anything
but if one of them insists they sit diffrent
or opposit/next to
maybe something is going on

your a very lucky girl to have a relationship like this
You may feel like this but tbh, its just affection for him. we all feel paranoid about it now and again.
seems like you've got a bit more of a problem though.
Try telling her that your worried about it. If she's a true friend, she should understand without getting upset or annoyed at you. Just explain that your worried about the way your thinking! lol.
Your really pretty from your pictures, so he's a lucky boy to have you, as you seem nice too.
Hmm good luck with all this

good luck for a happy relationship with your friend, and your boyfriend

xx