Thanksgiving dinner ...

OK SO I HAVE BEEN DATING MY BOYFRIEND FOR 3YRS AND THE LAST TWO THANKSGIVING I HAVE GONE TO HIS HOUSE AND ATE AND THIS YEAR I JUST REALLY WANTED TO STAY AT HOME AND BE WITH MY FAMILY AND HE KEEPS GETTING MADD AT ME FOR NOT WANTING TO GO TO HIS HOUSE..AND...

ON TOP OF THAT HE HAS TO WORK SO HE WONT EVEN BE THERE...SO I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO PLS HELP...

tell him
hey I dont want to fight over this, its dumb.
I have spent the last 2 thanksgiving dinners with you and I want to spend time with my family and if you didnt have to work I would love to go to your family thanksgiving but since you have to work I dont want to be at your familys house without you.
so I just really want to go to mine and when you get off work we can hang out.

Hope that helps.

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so he wants you to go to his familys house where he will not be...and you want to stay home with your family...wow what a difficult decision I JUST HAVE NO IDEA

That's kindof dumb of him to do that. Tell him that you have a family too. And that you'd really like to spend time with them. Maybe you could ask him to come eat dinner with your family for a change? If he doesn't support your decision, he's not a very good boyfriend.

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lol I'm just messing with you. but yeah, family is more important than a boyfriend. you probably see him almost every day but you most likely don't see all your family too often.

Wow, you have been dating for 3 years and you allow him to get by with being a bully?
Your future with him will not be great unless you stand up for yourself.
He sounds selfish, childish and like a bully.