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Ok Im going to do something different. Ask me your question and I will give you my anwser.

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OK, I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU... I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT I HAVE LIVED WITH FOR FOUR YEARS NOW. WE HAVE BEAUTIFUL TWIN SONS TOGETHER, THEY ARE 19 MONTHS. MY BOYFRIEND GOT ON DRUGS REALLY BAD, I DON'T USE, INEVER HAVE AND NEVER WILL. AT FIRST I WAS ALL ABOUT TRYING TO HELP HIM. MY LIFE BECAME CONSUMED WITH 'HIS' PROBLEM. NOW I HAVE DONE A LOT MORE RESEARCH ABOUT HIS DRUG OF PREFFERENCE AND I EVEN HAVE A JOB WOKING WITH PEOPLE WITH SIMILAR PROBLEMS AS HIS SO I COULD GET HIS OUTLOOK. ANYWAYS, HE IS DOING MUCH MUCH BETTER NOW. (NOT PERFECT) I SEE THAT HE REALLY TRIES, HE HOLDS A JOB NOW, HE GIVES ME ALMOST HIS WHOLE CHECK, HE IS GREAT WITH THE KIDS, COOKS, CLEANS, SOMETIMES HE GOES TO HIS MEETINGS, BUT MOSTLY HE HANGS OUT WITH BETTER PEOPLE AND SPENDS MORE OF HIS FREE TIME AT HOME. MY PROBLEM IS I'M WONDERING IF IT'S TOO LATE. I HAVE A LOT OF MIXED FEELINGS ABOUT BEING WITH HIM. HE HAS PUT ME AND MY KIDS THROUGH SOME TERRIBLE THINGS IN THE PAST. HE DOESN'T MESS UP AS MUCH AS HE USED TO. HE USED TO BE THAT HE COULDN'T GO 3 DAYS WITHOUT GETTING HIGH. NOW HE MESSES UP ABOUT 1 A MONTH. I SEE HIM TRYING SO HARD, BUT SOMETIMES I REALLY WISH I WOULD HAVE MET A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT TYPE OF GUY. I USED KNOW THAT HE WAS THE ONLY MAN I WOULD EVER WANT 100%. NOW, I THINK ABOUT LEAVING HIM EVERY OTHER DAY. I LOVE HIM AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME. I MET HIM WHEN I WAS 19 AND I WANTED HIM IMMEDIATELY, I LOVED EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM. 6 YEARS LATER WE FINALLY GET TOGETHER, FALL IN LOVE. NOW I'M 29, I DON'T WANT THE SAME TYPE OF MAN I WANTED THEN. NOW I WANT SOMEONE WITH A GOOD JOB, SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T HAVE A 50 PAGE CRIMINAL HISTORY, SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T HAVE BAD CREDIT, MOSTLY, HOW DO I EVER TRUST HIM? HE HAS STOLEN FROM ME, MY KIDS, MY MOM, HE HAS WRECKED MY CAR, TAKEN MY DAUGHTER'S CHRISTMAS PRESENTS, MY CHRISTMAS PRESENTS, MY TV, HE HAS A FELONY SO HE CAN'T BE ON MY LEASE, HE LOST HIS LICENSE , ALL THIS STUFF ( AND A THOUSAND MORE THINGS) WERE ALL THINGS THAT HE DID DURING HIS SMOKING DOPE. HE HIT ME ONCE. NEVER AGAIN AND HE WAS HIGH. THAT WAS YEARS AGO. I USED TO DREAM ABOUT HIS BIG MUSCLES, SEXY LIPS, HOW HE COULD ALWAYS MAKE ME LAUGH, AND I LOVE SEEING HIM WITH THE KIDS. HE IS A GREAT FATHER. I NEVER SEEN A MAN PLAY WITH AND BATHE AND CHANGE HIS BABIES AND BE SO CLOSE TO HIS KIDS LIKE HE IS. iF HE KEEPS USING, WHAT WILL HE REALLY TEACH THEM ? IS IT TIME TO LET HIM GO ? I AM READY TO SETTLE DOWN, HOW DO YOU MAKE A FUTURE WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT THEY WILL BE LIKE TOMORROW? (SORRY ABOUT THE BOOK) ANY ADVICE ???

FIRST OF ALL DONT TYPE LIKE THIS! Ok I can see that you really love him and you don't want to let him go. But this is all you. If you want a divorce it is your decision. But if you pray for him he just might get better. It's your choice.

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