Teen pregnancy project

okay so teen pregnancy,
contraversial, obviously.
my health class is doing this debate about this phyathetical situation.
the girl is 16, pregnant, her boyfriend doesnt want anything to do with her, her parents arent letting her live at home, but will help pay for the baby if she decides to keep it.
there are two sides to the arguement,
a) she keeps the baby or..
b) gives it up for adoption.
my job is to listen to both arguements as to what she should do,
and then ask questions to come up with a final decision,
and I was just wondering if you have any good questions I could ask.
eg.
'what do you plan on doing to get the money you need for the baby if you keep it?'
those kinda things,

thanks a million.

I mean hypathetical. haha. :P

How can a teenager, who is still being raised, raise a child themselves? Do they have enough maturity? How can that teen go to school and take care of a child? Will they be able to attend college still? What will the child do while they are attending college? The foster care system is fille with pedifiles and abusive peoples. I would rather be killed than raped, so I pass that decision to my children, I would not put them at that risk of being harmed by another hand. They would have no suffering if they were never allowed to be alive. What do you consider being alive? Breathing and the circulation of blood via the SA node shocking your heart, or your contemplations and views and memories of the world around you? If they say the second, then a fetus is not alive and you are not killing anything, you are amputating a body part, YOUR body part. How healthy is it for a child to grow up without a father figure? Where are they going to live? How will she provide for its college education? Why should a child be punished for the acts of its parents? Why should it have to be raised in an irresponsible manner by a 16 year old girl and very likely dead broke because its mother was not safe, the safety didn't work, she was raped?

hypothetically? well ask her this one.

Do you feel you are mature enough to handle the baby?

Do you feel you can support this baby on your own should your parents fail to help?

Are you competent enough to understand that your baby's health will suffer at the hands of your irresponsibility should you not be able to find a job?

Are you aware of what neglect in the eyes of CPS is considering that there are literally thousands of cases of neglect that CPS handles thru teenage pregnancies alone.

How can you believe you are emotionally ready for such a big step in life considering how you yourself are still growing.

Do you have the means to support that child?

If she can't answer any of those she has no business being a parent and should put the baby up for adoption.

teenagers make horrible mothers.

You could then go to ask, if you feel that you can support your child tell me what do you plan on doing? A job that pays minimum wage isn't enough what qualifications do you have?

Would you be willing to take parenting classes to help prepare to become a parent?

Are you prepared to sacrifice your freedoms your careers your LIFE because you made a bad decision?

For the guy. Just tell him that he is a dead beat father and needs to grow a pair...hypothetically speaking.