Teen pregancy ?

Im a Teen and I want to get pregnant?

hi name is jackie and im 1 4 .I have a boyfriend which he's 19.I know what your thinking but this is different. I love him so much just like he loves me.And weare going truw a lot right now but not like arguerment.Other things but we want to have a baby and we know we are ready.People say that live your life,but I want to with him.We been truw so much together.And this aint no sex talk.He has support me in everything.They say the guy thats 19 in love with a 14 its im possible.but thats not true cause it has to do whats in your heart not just sex.I dont even think like 14,well I look older.Of course my mom loves him too just like hes family loves me.And thats not truw if you tell him you are pregeant they leave'EVERY GUY IS DIFFERENT' im ready to start my family and life with him.Lifeis not hard but we going truw it together and I know god will help us.

I want to know what other people is going to think about our relationship and how we think ?

You may look older, but you still have the mind of a 14 yr old. Naive, and very inexperienced in lifes situations like this one. He is an adult, you are a minor. What could a man out of high school, possibly have in common with a middle school child? You have to wonder about his maturity level. Maybe, just maybe if sex wasnt entered into this relationship, I would give him the benefit of the doubt as to why he is with someone so young, but the fact that sex is in the picture, makes this NO different than other girls in this same situation. If he really, truly 'loved' you, he would NEVER have had sex with you. Not until you have reached the age of consent. Love is NOT sex, because sex proves nothing! This is illegal in the eyes of the law, and he could get it for statutory rape of a minor.

You are a child, wanting a baby. You are NOT ready no matter how you look at it. The whole thing is supposed to be about providing a good life for the child, not BINDING SOME BOY TO YOU. So - how is it that you're ready? Do you have a stable work history and some indication of future prospects? Do you have a good education?

WANTING SOMETHING DOESN'T MAKE YOU READY. If you really want a baby, start now to do the things you need to do to provide it with a good life. Take summer classes and finish your education early, get a part time job and start saving, so when you're old enough to drive you can get a car.

Going ahead and having a baby when you haven't looked after providing a good nest FIRST, proves you aren't ready and worse, it suggests that having the baby is based on childish selfishness and immaturity.
You have no idea about reposibility; paying rent and utilities, shopping for a family, car insurance, taxes, saving for education...the list goes on.

It takes more than $180,000 to raise a child. Working at or near minimum wage places you below the poverty level.

You want the love and laughter of a child, and someday you can realize that dream. But you cannot fathom the reponsibiblity of caring for another human being. You give up your desires, your freedom, your future.

First of all...
A 19-year-old shouldn't be having sex with a 14-year-old.
Second...
You are still a child yourself, why rush to grow up? Wait until you have all your education, have a good paying job, are married, and are financially stable. Then maybe you will actually be ready for a child. Don't be irresponsible.

im not saying he doesnt love you at all im sure he does but it is wrong that he is having sex with you. to have a child at 14 is not the best idea you want to hahve a life first. you espeshally dont now were your relationship is going to be in 3 years. to have a child now would be irresponseable and silly because you yourself are still a child.

I am 16 and pregnant. My friend had a baby when she was 14. She is doing just fine! Look at all the girls on here that are doing fine! Do what makes you happy, don't listen to the people that tell you otherwise. It is YOUR life not theirs. So just do what makes you happy. But remember, it is going to be difficult and hard.. So think long and hard about your decission because you might want to change your mind later and you wont be able to. Make sure you have enough money to support it and make sure your boyfriend wont leave! I know you think you guys are perfect but when the going gets tough, you really dont know what he might do. He might say he will be there and you believe it with all your heart!! But guys do what they want and they say stuff you want to here. Goodluckk! Keep me up to date!<3

Hope I helped, xoxo

My honest opinion? Don't have babies until you can spell. You sound and type like you're 11...

For one thing, IT'S ILLEGAL for a 19 year old to be having a sex with anyone under 16 without parent consent. So your boyfriend can go straight to jail.
Truly and HOnestly, I don't think having a baby is the way to prove your love to him. You just proved to me that you are immature and not ready. I'm sorry and I know every situation is defferent, but I think you are just too young. If you were really in love you would talk about it together and he would wait for you. There is no hurry in life. Finish School and then think about it. You have to have priorities.

You only 14 why dont you live out of your teenage years. dont ruined your life. For me am 20 and I thought about it my cousin was 13 when she gave Birth now she 17 she cant do anything go clubs or be a teenager just please think about it first finish school then you decide after that get a good job thats the best way to go. Am not have my first kid until am 22 because I was to drink and go place. Just please relex you young do what young kids do and have fun with no babies.

Hi my name is Danielle and I have two kids under 3, they were born 13 months apart.I fell pregnant when I was 21.
Jeremy and I decided to have kids then because I have PCOS wich means the older I get the less chance I have to fall pregnant.Now we love our kids to death and I think if it wasnt for the fact that jeremy has a good job we would have really found it hard to get by.The only problem is you have no social life and it is hard seeing all of your friends going out while you stay at home with sh*tty nappies and spew, also don't forget all the sleep you will miss out on.
my only advice is make sure you can provide everything that your child will need and by that I dont just mean clothing and toys but love and rules also or it's them that will suffer most,and well thats just not cool.

WELL DO you what you WANT TO DO!! IM ONLY 14 AND IM PREGNANT IM SO NERVOUSE BUT IM SO EXCITED!! AND JUST THINK OF ALL THE SWEET TIMES your GOING TO HAVE WIT your BABY LIKE HIS OR HER FIRST AT THE ZOO OR AT DISNEY WORL!! BUT HE MIGHT LEAVE you BUT MYB NOT IM NOT YALL SO I don't know! BUT I HOPE I HELPED = }

Okayyy, first of all -- I was 16 dating a 20 y/o && got pregnant && my Mom went to the police station && pressed charges on him b/c it was carnal knowledge of a juivenille .. since then we don't talk or anything -- so make sure your parents LIKE him && dont mind that you are dating him before you choose to have a baby with him .. ALSO know that not only your parents have to press charges -- if ANYONE knows that he is sexually active with you then he can be put in jail on FELONY charges because you're only 14 -- now if you were over 16 && he was over 18 then its considered consential sex && he would only have a misdemenor && a small fine ... be careful & good luck !

if you have a baby right now what do you think everyone will think about u, I mean come on the first thing that comes into my mind is slut. you would also not be able to take care of this baby you couldnt get a job at your age and you would have to drop out of school, not a good example for any kid to have. and also look back on your life when you were 8 years old, now look at how much you have changed, you dont know if your gona love him 10 years from now do u? think of the kid, no1 should be raised like that.

plllease dont, you dont know what your getting your self into! the desison you make at 14 will be completey diffrent when yoour older and plus... ask your mom about her thoughts first... and if you were to get pregnet how would she take it.. you dont want to get your self into somthing that you cant get out of.

-my friend just got pregnet and it caused her parents to get divorced...
just remember to think about others in your life and how its going to
effect them befor you do anything you will regret!!! this desision will be with you for the REST of your life.

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hope I could help