Teachers

Tonight it was parents evening..and my home ecc teacher was speaking to me and my mum and she was like im Really concerned because Sams not eating properly and she always looks like shes going to faint in my class and I dont want her fainting on me. She...

needs to eat. She was like do you think your fat (to me) and I egnored her so shes like I dont think you are I think your perfect weight and are gorgeous..by which time I was realy raging and about to walk out..

Do you think she was right to actually tell my mum this? did she have the right to do that? because she didnt even mention anything about my actuall work either..I cant beleive she did this.. And my mum already knows about it anyway..and my guidance teacher had been helping me and I been seeing a counceller..Grrr

Your teacher showed concern because she 'CARES' - teachers should work with parents as both are charged with looking after your best interests - many, many, don't care - be Thankful.

Ok, well, one I know your pain. My mom found out that I tried to throw up my food and didnt eat much. I think your teacher was rite to do that. I think she was concered on the fact that she didnt want you to end up making yourself sick and weak. she wanted your mother to help you and save u. you should know that your teacher really cares bout you and dont want you hurting yourself.

But she should have spoke to my guidance teacher first...if she had she would have found out that my mum also knows and that im getting over the disorder and that my guidance teacher is helping me and I've been seeing a councellor..

okay, so mainly she really didnt know that your mother already knew but she was still trying to help. I mean, if you were still not eating and stuff, your teacher probably just wanted your mother to know that.