Talking to parents after being walked in on

PLEASE HELP ME, me and my g/f whom I love very much were jus walked in on while making love. im very afraid and I dont want to lose her, we are 16 and this isnt the first situation like this. I am expected to go down and talk to my parents about them...

and tell them what I think that they should do about this situation. I need help figuring out what to say, I need to say something that will give me an obvious punishment, but still allow me to talk to her and maybe see her after a while

stay calm...keep your head straight
explain to them why you did it, apologize and tell them you understand they're angry and try to get them to see your reasoning

and p.s. next time do it when no ones home
good luck!

Your parents are understandably very hurt and disappointed - you need to apologize as sincerely and strongly as possible asap !! - right and wrong - you need to make better choices in life !...Good luck

yes explain to them why you did it, tell them you are very sorry and then accept whatever punishment they will give you. Then by the end they will see that you have learned you lesson and forgive you.

Bee xx

thank you all, things are ok, im obv. getting consequences, but im ok, on the other hand my g/f was dragged out of her apartment in hand cuffs for attempting to take her own life : ( but we still love each other and things are going to be ok, thank you so much for all of your advice. I didnt take it however because the whole talk was down before I got to read these, but I took a very mature approach to the whole situation and that helped a lot a lot

good advice foxxy!

Everything will be ok.

well it is very understandble as to why they are upset and disapointed and what not. I hope that you two were using a condom when this happened. That will help.
My best advice to you is to be honest with them and tell them why you did it. That it is normal, natural and we where made to do this. It is part of the life cycle and what not, I take it not a part that they want you to participate in this early in life an what not. there is little that they can do there though you are of legal age after all and so there is nothing that they can really do. I would say that you should apologive to them since it is their home that you have desided to go and do this in.

May be you them and your girl could all sit down and talk about this. I dont know it might be a good idea.

Well best of luck to you.

dark wolf

well it is very understandble as to why they are upset and disapointed and what not. I hope that you two were using a condom when this happened. That will help.
My best advice to you is to be honest with them and tell them why you did it. That it is normal, natural and we where made to do this. It is part of the life cycle and what not, I take it not a part that they want you to participate in this early in life an what not. there is little that they can do there though you are of legal age after all and so there is nothing that they can really do. I would say that you should apologive to them since it is their home that you have desided to go and do this in.

May be you them and your girl could all sit down and talk about this. I dont know it might be a good idea.

Well best of luck to you.

dark wolf

At least your at home and not in a park at night or something. I would be much happier to know my daughter was having sex in a clean environment where there were condoms provided etc. I dont condone young sex but you would think they would be happier knowing your safe!