What do you think about swingers?

so my friends and I were talking about couples who swing and what the majority of people think about it.
let me know your opinions on it.

I did few times the two possibilities: we invited an other man, and I was also invited as other man. If you do it with friends, with good humor, and does not overdo it, than it is a big fun, and makes the relationship stroger and more colorful. The 3rd (and 4th) partner's personality is the same important like in the normal relationships.

You have to find a good balance with it. Like bubux007 said, it's just like any other relationship... only more added to the equation. As long as both partners in a relationship are comfortable with it, it can be a lot of fun and build the relationship even more.

xox
Sika

Dear sapphire21,
The stats state that couples who swing have a huge chance of breaking up. Typically couples who approach this idea find that they are bored or looking to spice up their sex life. To most committed couples this is a huge red flag and the reasons are not being addressed as to why they feel they need to go out of the relationship. The work needs to be done and not just covered up with swinging because the initial problems are still there. If a couple finds they are uninterested with being solely with their partner then they need to seek counselling. The human being secretes a hormone during sex; this hormone we fondly call the attachment hormone because what it does is create a bond with the person we are have sex with. Women secrete much more than males...hence they can tolerate this type of infidelity longer. But men be warned it does catch up with them especially when they ask to have the same couple over and over again.
Sue...good luck

that is disgusting, and I personally feel as if that should not be allowed in a relationship, I personally view it as allowed cheating. :]

what happens mostly is the man trys to convince his women to / SWING / she is hesitant / Then they do it ! /// Then after a time the man / GET's SCARED ! / And want's to stop swinging // BUT THE WOMEN DOES NOT Then there is a flaw.