Stupid personal mind games

Alright, so I am dating a guy who is in college, he lives four hours away from me but he comes home very frequently so we do see eachother quite often. we have a very close relationship while he is here or while I am there... And we talk all the time when we are apart... But even so, during the time when we aren't together, I constantly play stupid mind tricks on myself... Even after a great phone conversation, or a sweet "goodnight" text I constantly make myself think that he is going to loose intrest in me even when just an hour ago, it was obvious that he cared about me and wanted to be with me. can anyone tell me why I do that? am I insecure? am I putting those thoughts into my mind so that I loose intrest in him so that it doesn't hurt as bad when we are a part? and what can I do to make those make believe feelings go away?

Peace, jacinda.

insecure yes, is that a bad thing? no. its ok to feel like that if the person you like is away from you and around tons of other people,including other girls. Its normal human behavior. All you can do is tolerate it really