Strong feelings for my cousin!!

I#039;m 13 years old and I think I have strong feelings for my cousin. Like a guy not as my cousin, and I think he does to but I#039;m I don#039;t know what to do, If to see him secretly without my mom knowing, or should I try to forget him.

Today...

we almost kissed but my insticts told me not to. I mean he is 14 years old. I really like him.What should I do??

Forget about him, it's incest and then you're whole family will be talking and you're friends and people at school also.. its actually kind of discusting. He's your own blood.

what the hell thats your family not some guy from school or the mall
thats your blood
i think you shouldn't tell him because first he can eithier like you or he might freak out and tell his mom or dad
try to not get alone with him you might do something your'll regret
please take my advice

I've had feelings for my half-cousin and he's admitted the same for me.
we've both said if we weren't related we'd be together.
of course we know nothing will ever happen, it's too complicated.
you're young, it could just be a passing crush.

we have the same situationi think if you really love him then go for it! but just think what you're family is going to say.. but love works in mysterious ways right?..so if you love him and he loves you then go for it.. but just remember the problems that you two will encounter!! ok good luck!! =)

I dont what to be mean but I dont think you shoul dlike him cause hes your FAMILY!!! thats like dating your brother and if you guys dooo then your friends might talk about you behind your back and say SHES GOIN OUT WITH HER COUSIN!!! and I ddono if you no if you have a child with someone you are related to they come out demented like there eye would be on there chin!!! sooo trust meee I dont think you want to do that because that would be pretty sad!!! I hope you take my advice ok? I hope I wasnt mean I didnt try to be swry

I will always love my cousin...Until end

I will always love my cousin...till end...

umm..yucky!.thats pretty nasty I understand if your a little kid but your 13 buddy. that not cool your kids will be deflicted.its just not supposed to be

umm..yucky!.thats pretty nasty I understand if your a little kid but your 13 buddy. that not cool your kids will be deflicted.its just not supposed to be

I dunno...I found it weird to be attracted to my half-cousin, we would flirt and stuff, but after reading these, it not that uncommon. I think if I had the chance I would kiss him, just to see..but I would NEVR want my mom or his parents to find out. The secrecy part seems fun...just go for it! I don't love him, but I feel attracted to him, and he was totally attracted to me, so obivious..I fell asleep in his bed once...but nothing happened! I would have a little fun with it, but I'm sure this isn't more than a crush...and its not like dating a brother, cause you didn't grow up like brother and sister!

I know who you feel no lie because on summer vacation with family to d.r after we got out of the resort my family and I went to my aunt's house and there I met my cousin the first night there I didnt really see him there much but then the next night after my mom feel asleep and my brother fell asleep my mom told me to go to sleep but I wasnt tired and so that night my cousin and I had matteresses 's set on the floor (in the same room) but while they where sleeping me and my cousin were listening and I noticed he was looking at me and iall I could do was smile to music and then I got cold covered myself in the blanket and asked if he was cold he wasnt and so I played this game on the computer and when I lost he said he was cold and so I covered him in the blanket and he started sucking on my neck and kissing me and from there we did it and the truth is we both knew were cousin but enjoyed it

I know who you feel no lie because on summer vacation with family to d.r after we got out of the resort my family and I went to my aunt's house and there I met my cousin the first night there I didnt really see him there much but then the next night after my mom feel asleep and my brother fell asleep my mom told me to go to sleep but I wasnt tired and so that night my cousin and I had matteresses 's set on the floor (in the same room) but while they where sleeping me and my cousin were listening and I noticed he was looking at me and iall I could do was smile to music and then I got cold covered myself in the blanket and asked if he was cold he wasnt and so I played this game on the computer and when I lost he said he was cold and so I covered him in the blanket and he started sucking on my neck and kissing me and from there we did it and the truth is we both knew were cousin but enjoyed it

go for it!! it isn't like he is your actual brother or something. he is just a cousin. I liked one of my cousins too. it first it was embarrasing when I told someone and they told someone else. I was expecting the person they told to come up to me and make fun of me, but they didn't. it was very surprising. just go with your natural instinct.

same thinh wit me I love my cousin she just makes me too happy and wer both 13

UMMM...NO! no offense but you need to take a minute and realize what you just said...

OK STOP. listen you have to think about what you will feel for each other if this dosent work out like how you guys will feel if he comes home with a girl or when you guys bump into eachother at reunion AFTER you guys broke up.and how your mom will act like when she finds out that you are into your cusin.just because a guy is willing to kiss dosent mean he likes u,honesly guys just sumtimes get turned on and judt want to make out at that momment.your a girl and you have to think about it for the two of u.guys dont think most of the time.anf if you doo like each other how will you guys go out into the world?, HOLDING HAND IN PUBLIC?? or KISSING IN PUBLIC?.and what if you guys dont care about your familes ideas on you to and are like ok lets blow them off? ok then you two decide to have a baby and your mixing close blood. the cells KNOW that this isnt normal for two cusins to have kids so more then likly the child will be born mentaly retarded or have some kind of disablity because the blood is too close.I googles this for you and found this dr response Inbreeding leads to an increase in homozygosity (the same allele at the same locus on both members of a chromosome pair). This occurs because close relatives are much more likely to share the same alleles than unrelated individuals. This is especially important for recessive alleles that happen to be deleterious, which are harmless and inactive in a heterozygous pairing but, when homozygous, can cause serious developmental defects. Such offspring have a much higher chance of death before reaching the age of reproduction, leading to what biologists call inbreeding depression, a measurable decrease in fitness due to inbreeding among populations with deleterious recessives. Recessive genes, which can contain various genetic problems, appear more often in the offspring of procreative couplings whose members both have the same gene so basically your kid has a very high chance of having depression,die before reaching a reproductive age,mentally retardation. so just think about all thise before you guys decide to take it to the next level.

ok em I have lots of guy cousins and actually im da only girl,so we wouldnt do stuff but we do get close,I would like sit on his lap and he would hug me or like teach me stuff but I woud nver get involve wid dem,I know I love dem dearly and I would kill anyone who would hurt dem,but den dey told me that if anyone hurt me dey would kill dem,n we get along vry well,me and ma cousins like to drink and we would actually talk abt stuff like family issues,ralationship,enviroment,dey so still think and take me like if im a pricious thing and actually its really nice,but I would neva ever get involve wid each oda even tho we are stupid smetimes and fool around,but wer just having fun...but is your choice really,its really weird lol oh god,nae offence but I do think its kinda sick

So normally I wouldnt even be reading this because I also just thought that it was weird to be with a cousin. First a few facts... Christianity is actually accepting of cousins getting married. in the bible theres many cousins that get married. and some people say its illegal, but its actually legal everywhere other then in the US, where its legal in about half the states. And your children only have 2% greater chance of having genetic problems then other children, unless its been going on for generations in your family, which is a greater risk.

Im posting on here now because I made out with my cousin last night at a wedding. I'm 18 and hes 24. We were both drunk and confessed we had feelings for the other one and he decided that we had to try kissing each other and see what it was like. Now we're both confused because it didnt feel weird and we both enjoyed ourselves. We thought that maybe kissing would be awkward and gross and that it would make us stop having these feelings.

We're getting together tomorrow to talk about it because we cant talk to anyone including our friends about it. He is my first cousin and I've known him my entire life and just started feeling attracted to him about a year ago. We both feel like this is wrong and neither of us think that this should be happening but for some reason we have an attraction to each other and dont know what to do.

I know how you feel, because I feel the same way about my brother but nothing ever happened
Just go for it people will give you a hard time at first but you're not hurting anybody and you should be free to love whoever you want and hey, you might be destined to be together so so what if God accidently put you on the Earth as cousins, he still chose for you to be together so it will be okay I think the two of you were made to be in love

I have feelings for my cousin too. We had sex on vacation a couple months ago and I had feelings for him before that. Me and him have like this special thing together I think he likes me 2. I don't know what to do either.