Still virgins & havent even had a first kiss!! help

Ok me my friend are 15 we are still virgins amp; we havent even had our first kiss yet! We dont know what to do! Is it a bad thing all of our other friends have done it all! We dont know if we should do it now or wait we dont want to wait to long!...

But we dont want to end up being pregnant at a young age! But we think its stupid that we havent even had our first kiss! amp; we have gone out with tons of guys! tell us what you think we should do we really need someones help!

kissing is fine. but LEAVE THE SEX ALOOONE.

no, it's not a bad thing at all. I'm about your age so im not too different from you..
sex is serious, so only do it with someone you've been with for more than 6th months, hasn't pressured you, and don't refuse to use protection.
plus you want it to be with someone special that there's a chance you'll be with them for the rest of your life.
kissing isn't that big of a deal.. just follow what the other person does.. if you get the choice on where your first kiss is, the movies isnt always the most romantic..
usually skating rink, bowling alley, or a movie night at their house possibly..
hope this little piece of advice helps =)

I don't have much to say about this except don't worry about it so much! I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 18. And he was the first person I kissed. And don't worry about what everyone else is doing... it's YOUR body and only you decide what you do with it. Do not feel pressured to do anything you're not ready for. Best of luck!!

well...im 16 now and I got my first kiss at 15..but when I didnt have it till I was like in the 10th grade and all my friends had there first kisses since like the 5th grade..I felt so embarrased like it was a must that I have to do...then my crush from the 7th grade asked me out in the 10th grade lolz...and a month later he kissed me...it was natural..even though a lot of our friends were pressuring us to kiss and stuff..we did it when we though we were ready and 3 days we were making out like crazy :p so just let the kiss come to u..instead of waiting for it..you'll find it more fun that way...and sex..well me and boyfriend have talked abt it and a lot of my freinds have already done it..but he's my first boyfriend and I've been w/ him for 1 year and a month and we decided that we were going to get married first that way if we wouldnt have to worry abt me getting preg...take your time girl...

well I'm 14 and am a virgin plus I have never even had a boyfriend which is kinda weird I know. Don't feel pressured just cause everybody else has had s*x or kissed somebody. I don't want to get STI or somehting so yeah thats part of it.

Wait until you are married.

wow these replies are all argueing its really funny ... im 14 I would definatly say you can kiss someone , but bout virginity stuff keep it to yourself im planning on waiting til im 21 ... witch is hard considering I live in vegas ... Hit me up if you wana chat

You and your friend don't need to be concerned with what other people are doing. You're pretty smart to not jump into things just to experience them. It will all come in good time - trust me, you won't be spending the rest of your life as a spinster just because you didn't have sex or make out with a guy when you were 15. It can be really overrated if it's not with the right person - even a kiss. My first kiss was when I was 14. The guy was like 5 inches shorter than me, he was pretty much stalking me and had wicked braces. He kiss like a weirdo. I was horribly disappointed. My next kiss was just as bad, only this one wanted to lick my entire face. Gross! Do jump into anything. You're fine just the way you are. The right kiss will come at the right time. And don't let all that making out lead to sex if you're not ready for that, either. You're young, so you should give yourself plenty of time. You have the rest of your lives to experience all of that stuff.

dont worry, im almost 17 and I HAVENT had my first kiss or have had sex. I could kiss some guy I know, he would love that, *roll eyes* but the truth is, its my first kiss and I really want it to be special because youll remember it forever. also, if you get horny, just think of something thatll ruin it, or make a promise to yourself to wait til marraige, thatll be special too, plus, youll want to give your virginity up to someone you love. think of it as a gift, the ultimate gift, along with your love to the guy you marry, itll be all that more special. there is a guy I would LOVE to kiss, problem is hes my best friend. im not just going to kiss him either. if hes going to be my first, then I want it to be special. just wait, please you be thankful you did.

Just have your friend dare you to go up to a hottie and give him a good kiss lol or just get a boyfriend and after you've been going out for a while kiss him then later makeout with him when the time is right and make the relationship last enough to give him a handjob or blowjob and have him finger you.when your ready or on prom loose your virginity with someone you love.(: lol. But if he does finger you make sure sperm isn't on his hand bc that's one way you could get pregnant!

I'm 18 and never kissed anyone

Don't be in such a hurry. You should wait until you are about 25 or 26 years old before you start dating, so you will be more mature. 15 is just a small child, although you are probably close to 20, since you asked this question over 4 years ago. Anyways just wait until you are about 26 years old and then start dating

for kising no problem but sex no you still young for that virginity is so much better

Stay pure until marriage, you will be so blessed!

I personally think that if you are 15 and not sexually active is good. You could have atleast had your first kiss but if your not ready then your just not ready. That desicion is on you and you only.

Ok im getting annoyed with men bashers. Its not just the guy who makes the decision to be intimate, or if it is, then thats the only guy you can get because of your crap attitude.

And as for the question, you guys dont have to want to kiss and have sex just because! wait till you have someone you care about and then experiment. Im 14 And getting into that phase shortly. Just have fun!

I'm almost 16 and I have never been kissed. I've just simply been waiting for the right person to kiss. Don't rush into things and then regret the fact that you kissed someone only because you wanted to get kissed. Honestly you have nothing to worry about.
The sex thing however... be careful. Don't rush into anything. I have a friend who has had sex with 2 guys. She claimed that both of them loved her and that she loved both of them. Then when she had sex with them they weren't interested in her anymore. The second guy she had sex with she thought she got pregnant.
Sometimes guys(not all guys... keep that in mind)just say stuff to get what they want and once they have it they don't need you anymore. Being 15 and still being a virgin is the least of your worries.
Whatever choice you make choose wisely and be careful. Remember not everyone is doing it. I haven't done it and neither have a lot of my friends.
I wish you the best of luck in all your future decisions.

IM TOTALLY AGREE WITH michelle 23 31 me you have to wait for the right person, look, im 14 and I had my first kiss when I was 12, I dont even know the person, we were in a free shop and he kissed me, it was a sorprice cause I didnt know who was that person, ok...that boy was really hot, but he wasnt the right person cause I didnt love him...

now i´d kissed a lot of boys but im still virgin, I think im going to get my virginity till my marryage...it doesnt matter, its your life and you have to do what you think better for you, if you want to kiss him, go on and kiss that boy and if you want to have sex, just go and have sex but you have to be carreful, use protection and all those things ok???

I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18, it's not a big deal. My fiance was a virgin until he met me and that was when he was 22 years old. It is really not a big deal and nothing to rush into, believe me. We were both so happy to be virgins when we met.

I didn't get my first kiss until the age of 21, at the end of my first date. I say if an opportunity comes along to kiss someone or have sex with him, take it. you don't want to have to live with regret the way I have and have to live with the secret shame I have over not getting kissed til I was 21 years. old.