Stepdad -_-

im usually really patient, but when it comes to my stepdad, he just drives me crazy.

its been like this fer yearsss, but I really cant take it anymore. I've been living with him fer 10 yearss. he talks sh!t about my dad right in front of me. he wont...

let me do anything. I want to go ice-skating, and he yells at me because he says I should focus more on volleyball ; im already going to all the practices. he yells at me fer getting a boyfriend, he calls me a b*tch.
he yells at me fer EVERYTHING I do. I've done practically everything that he wants ; join team sports, stay in programs, work on my grades, etc. but hes still always yeling at me. he tells me to respond to his questions, and when I do, he yells at me fer talking to him!! when hes drunkk [which is at least 3 days a week], hes really abusive too
I've tried asking to talk to him, like having a talk to try and work the problems out between us, but he says that hes too busy fer me and he doesn’t give a sh!t about me and my stepsister. my mom knows about it, but she doesnt do anything about this ; she ALWAYS stands up fer my stepdad. ALWAYS ; theres not one time where she doesn’t stand on my side, even if im reasonable.

I know hating on people is wrong, but I truly do hate my stepdad. hes abusing me, physically and emotionally. what can I do about this hating feeling ? and what can I do about my stepdad ? thankss.

I think your mom is protecting the only man she has in her life... I think that you should confront her on this, and maybe she will clue into the fact that you should be the most important thing in her life...and she might just toss him rite out tha door... Wanna talk more, funmail me, I had a friend in the exact same situation

I would explain the situation to someone close to the family and if that doesn't help I would tell him to f*** it and stay at a friends house for the night and if it doesn't elp I'm sorry I dun know but my mom always yells at me no matter what I do and she calls me a fat @$$ and a lazy b*** and stuff... so I'm in the same boat as you

I've tried that before fudool;
my mom doesnt listen thoughh.
she never does.
no matter how sad I am, she still doesnt listen or care..
thanks fer trying thoo.

I know how you feel and I'm really sorry he does this to you. I have a friend also, that her dad get's drunk a lot and put's her down emotionally. For your care its abusive emotional right? I think you should seek help not from your dad, step-dad or mom or anybody like that. Does your school have a psychologist? If so, tell your teacher you need to speak with him/her and tell them about your problem's. I once had a similar situation and I talked to a school psychologist and they really helped me. If your school doesn't have one I would suggest seeking help from one of your friend's parents and maybe they can help you. I hope I helped!=]

Go talk to a close friend
Tell them bout your problems go see someone(forget the word) but go see them and tell them bout your stepdad and what he does do you and tell them how it hurts you
Maybe if you get it out of you it will help
Hope I help

what I would do is say f*** you dad you stop yelling at me for everything or im calling the cops on your a**
I wouldnt think that he would let you go on this site by how controlling he is

I am so sorry mandy. if I were you, I would tell your school counselor. it might seem lame or whatever but they can reall help you out

maybe tell your mom youre done with his sh*t and that if he doesnt smarten his act up youre going to move out. Or just move out with another family member or your dad. Thats what I would do. Actually if I was in your position I would most likely yell back at the stepdad and threaten to call the police on him if he were to hurt me in any way again. Just because im like that lol. Dont seem scared or intimidated by him, he sounds like a real asshole.

well uh... I've just gotten outda this thing were I was mentally absused over the summer,and before...I know how it feels(kinda) on that front.. and when you told me bout this a lil while ago I really wanted to help.. I guessyou should talk to someone who can do something... like your principal or a teacher you like and confide in etc.
I would really like to see this mess be cleared up... no-one deserves cr@ppy parents... I've had more than my fair share of parents not giving a cr@p. if you need any more sugestions or just a person to talk bout it... gimme a shout... im only a shout away.

tell your real dad how he is. and that he's always talking shi* about him and how he treats you. or next time he abuses you or whatever call a cop...cops are to protect people, theres nothing wrong with letting them know whats going on.

Hope this helps
Brooklyn