Spin the bottle

I'm 15 and I've never had my first kiss yet

My friend is having a halloween party this week and we are going to be playing spin the bottle.

Should I play or wait until I have a real boyfriend to have my first kiss with?

Aloha aidenxx,

I would wait...playing a game like that and sharing your first kiss with some one you may not even know or having feelsing for well that just messes it up.

It should be some thing speacial for both of you not the out come of a stupid game.

Also it is better if it is just the two of you and not a lot of other people around.

My husband didn't get his forst kiss till he was 19 years old...also I am the first one he has had sex with at 21 years old.

He is not a bad looking guy either...I was surprized my self. There is nothing wrong with waitting though...he is glad that he did.. Even though we didn't know at the time we were going to get married he is still happy that it was shared with me.

It is something that should hold meaning latter on in your life you know.

Best Wishes
Faolan Blood

thank you so much!

Yea I was thinking on waiting but when I'm at the party what am I soposed to do when everyone else is playing spin the bottle and I'm just sitting there? They are going to think that I am prude.

Ok girl first of all spin the bottle is not the best way to have your first kiss. It should definately be with a guy that you're sure doesn't just want some action and is then just going to leave you hangin'. Trust me that's been done to me and it sux heavy! To me your first kiss should be a moment to remember and spin the bottle is not the way to go. Spin the bottle is fun yeah but only do it once you've gained experience kissing someone first so you don't feel forced. Hope this helped hunni=) x!

if I were you I would so wait. kissing a boy when you dont liek him, it just won't feel right. trust me, when you have a boyfriend, you'll feel a lot more comfortable with kissing HIM, then some other guy who you dont like at a party, especially during spin the bottle (:
I hope this helped you out!

-Kerry656

well when we play spin the bottle is normally a quick peck on the lips nothin too much so its ok and your not really having a full proper first kiss in sum ways..if you know what I mean lol

but if you play it and snogg each other then I would wait till you find someone special lol